I came across a web site featuring what I believe are a couple of very good Bible-based articles offering encouragement to Christian singles. Many churches have ministries for just about everyone but Christian singles. Unfortunately, there's little support because many people are Christian only until it comes to this area of life. Obedience to God then goes out of the window. If there's no support for you as a single in your church, don't expect it, others don't care so try to help yourself. The article "Encouragement for the Christian Single Woman" at the link below may offer you encouragement. It's geared towards single Christian women, but I think men could find help in it as well.