Concept of ideal

i think the idea of ideal is all in unconsious mind the picture developed over the period of time starting from the very young age for example as a child you are mostly under the influence of your parents if some thing is liked or disliked by your parents you are directly influenced by it and a reaction positive or negative develops within your sub consious and you collect some features of each of the personality who influence you or your influencing person is influenced by and unknowingly you collect all features annd characteristics of your ideal person thats the reason you like some and dislike other for no apparent reasons but actually your entire life's subconsious experience is behind that.