Is it possible to forgive a cheating husband? This is a hard question to answer. This will depend on how much you value your relationship and how much you were angry that your lover cheated. There are some people that will divorce you right away if they found out that you betrayed them. They will leave you. They will not put up with it. One time someone that I liked started looking at another woman like he wants to do something with her and that alone made me want to quit the relationship. I don't think that you should forgive them or be too lenient and if they see that they might repeat the offense. Every case is different but I've observed that cheaters often do repeat the same offense. I have had friends who took back a cheater and he repeats the same thing. You could lose your mind when a man keep cheating on you. I would rather have a clean ending then a messy one but every woman is different. It's an upsetting topic and it's hard to think of any reasons why a woman should forgive a cheater.

People learn and you teach them how you want to be treated. I don't think you should put up with a cheating husband. I think that we should install higher standards in our relationships so that the cheaters don't think that they can come back anytime they like. I think that before he cheats you should have rules and let him know that you can't forgive him and he'll need to pack up and leave. I don't think that we should be easy and forgive them easily. If you're going to forgive you should at least make it very hard on them so that they can learn their lessons well.

I don't think it's ever a good idea to have affairs. Why do you need to give people a headache anyways? It looks like you have plenty of free times if that's all that you worry about. I would say "no forgiving" because that's how I am and especially if I didn't cheated but he did. I don't really like the topic of cheating that much but a lot of people cheat. I don't think I can forgive a husband for doing that to me especially if I have a really good relationship with him prior to that. If I didn't care that much about the guy then I would let him go completely but I don't forgive and continue in a relationship because it's an insult to me if someone betrayed me. Don't you feel like that person insulted you personally? They don't care about you or else they wouldn't have cheated. I'm not that desperate to stay with a cheater. Cheater doesn't forget their old road. I think that you should think carefully before you forgive a cheater.