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Diffusing the F-Bomb

posted June 19, 2008 - 3:55pm
Diffusing the F-Bomb

Non-Fiction by Mia

This is a sound byte from a conversation I overheard this morning while I was waiting at my favorite coffee shop for my morning espresso:

Teen boy #1: Hurry up, already! I want my f------ coffee.

Teen boy#2: It’s so f------ expensive here.

Teen boy #1: Ya and I only have three f------ dollars.

Teen girl: No way! How’re ya gonna buy me a bagel then?

Teen boy #1: I don’t f------ know.

Teen girl: F--- you then.

This was a full-on barrage of the F-bomb and I hadn’t even yet had my coffee so I was already irritable. But then to have to stand behind America’s Hopes for the Future and listen to expletives used as adjectives was too much to handle.

Since when did it become acceptable to cuss so casually in public? I thought that the F-bomb was reserved for crisis situations like a kidnapping / hostage negotiation or a Bob Saget movie.

And before I go further, yes, I use the word…if I accidentally burn my hand cooking or drop something heavy on my toe. I’m not above using curse words, I just pick the appropriate (private!) moment to scream them.

But do I dare touch upon the subject of free speech? That it’s their constitutional right to say what they want, when and where they want? This drives my rant in a different direction, away from politeness and in to politics and that’s not where I wanted to go today.

Simply, I am writing about awareness. Can you (meaning casual cussers) be aware that there are people around you who don’t want to hear about your "f------ coffee"? If you reread the opening dialogue without the f-bombs, it still retains the requisite attitude for teens but it’s no longer offensive.

Therefore, I would like to start a movement to diffuse the F-bomb. And I will get right on that after I finish my espresso…

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I have to admit that after working 11 years in a truck stop, and another 5 years in a lumber mill, it takes a conscious effort on my part not to use that word frequently when speaking...sometimes when you hear it too much, on a regular basis it just becomes another word. Funny, when I write, the urge to use it is gone completely - I do make an effort not to say it, especially when I am in "mixed" company but there are times when I'm not paying attention it just pops out of my mouth:{ Get Paid $$$ to Write! Join Xomba! www.xomba.com/referral/7778f814

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The F-Word: Where is its origin? Well, here's some info...

The level one uses the F-word, well, it still comes down to education and etiquette. Without either, the F-word is more abundant in a person's language, and, becomes a beacon, which flashes a lack of learning. I thought it was about time for me to get the correct information. So, here are some things I located. A) From: http://urbanlegends.about.com/library/bl-pluck-yew.htm Jesse Sheidlower, author of "The F-Word" (Random House: 1999), says the "totally ludicrous" tale erroneously conflates the etymology of the word f**k with an older bit of folklore, itself questionable, purporting to trace the origin of the European "two-finger salute" (roughly analagous to "flipping the bird" in America) back to the taunts of British archers against the French during the Hundred Years' War. Etymologists say f**k found its way into the English language from Dutch or Low German during the 14th century and made its first written appearance around 1500. The word pluck, on the other hand, is of Latin derivation and there is no known linguistic connection between the two English words. It's doubtful the expression "Pluck yew" was ever uttered before 1996, when this apocryphal story first went into circulation online. The middle-finger gesture, which has apparently had phallic connotations in every culture in which it has been used, is much older. We know it dates back to ancient Greece, at least, where it was referenced in "The Clouds," a play written by Aristophanes in 423 B.C. It was also well known to the Romans, who referred to it variously as digitus infamis ("infamous finger") and digitus impudicus ("indecent finger"). In all likelihood its origins were prehistoric. Here's another excellent location to check the word out (when pasting the link put the letters where the ** are): http://www.snopes.com/language/acronyms/f**k.asp#refs B)From: http://urbanlegends.about.com/library/bl-f-word.htm Origin of the F-Word Netlore Archive: In which we are told -- with a straight face -- that the word 'f**k' originated as the acronym of 'Fornication Under Consent of the King' (or some variation thereof) Description: Folk etymology Circulating since: The 1960s Status: False Variant #1: Email example contributed by T. McInnis, 22 March 2001: In ancient England a person could not have sex unless you had consent of the King (unless you were in the Royal Family). When anyone wanted to have a baby, they got consent of the King, the King gave them a placard that they hung on their door while they were having sex. The placard had F.*.*.*. (Fornication Under Consent of the King) on it. Variant #2: From a Usenet posting, 1 November 1990: The word f**k comes from colonial times, when someone would be punished for 'prostitution' It was an acronym for the words 'For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge' F**K was written on the stocks that held these criminals because For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge was too long to go on the stocks. Variant #3: From a Usenet posting, 12 October 1990: I always heard that "F.*.*.K." originated in the 1800's in London, when they used to charge prostitutes "For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge". So officer got sick and tired of writing those, um, lessee, 26 characters, not including spaces, so it got abbreviated F**K and stuck. Comments: Having consulted the definitive reference work on this subject (yes, there is such a thing: The F-Word by Jesse Sheidlower, published by Random House in 1999), I feel confident in dismissing all the claims above as imaginative bunk. The word f**k did not originate as an acronym. It crept, fully formed, into the English language from Dutch or Low German around the 15th century (it's impossible to say precisely when because so little documentary evidence exists, probably due to the fact that the word was so taboo throughout its early history that people were afraid to write it down). The American Heritage Dictionary says its first known occurrence in English literature was in the satirical poem "Flen, Flyss" (c.1500), where it was not only disguised as a Latin word but encrypted - gxddbov - which has been deciphered as fuccant, pseudo-Latin for "they f**k." According to Sheidlower, the earliest claims in print of supposed acronymic origins for the F-word appeared during the 1960s. An underground newspaper called the East Village Other published this version in 1967: It's not commonly known that the word "f**k" originated as a medical diagnostic notation on the documests of soldiers in the British Imperial Army. When a soldier reported sick and was found to have V.D., the abbreviation F.*.*.K. was stamped on his documents. It was short for "Found Under Carnal Knowledge." Two more variants appeared in a letter published in Playboy magazine in 1970: My friend claims that the word f**k originated in the 15th Century, when a married couple needed permission from the king to procreate. Hence, Fornication Under Consent of the King. I maintain that it's an acronym of a law term used in the 1500s that referred to rape as Forced Unnatural Carnal Knowledge." 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It Was Just An Acronym +1

Nice Read. Thought I would drop my 2 cents in on the original meaning of the "F-bomb". Which is hardly applicable in our language today, but yet ironically still implies a shell of it's original meaning. For one usually know F = For * = Unlawful * = Carnal * = Knowledge Sadly, as was pointed out above. A lack in education, poor environment, lacking parental judgement, poor choice of companions, and of course wide media/movie endorsement is the reason we are forced to hear the constant odious stream of profane ignorance dripping from the mouths of babes. FreeCracker4Jack Would you like to earn money writing similar articles? CLICK ME! Read more great articles: http://www.xomba.com/xombyte/free_cracker_4_jack?p

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`Tis the F---ing Facts of Life

Not that people have to use- or not use-the f-word, but 'that people can decide' and 'that words become less-powerful/more-accessible with each use (unless that use is properly justified).' For example, Chris Crocker. That very name is probably a 'curse-word' now, but he uses the f-word somewhat irreverently in his videos. (One especially funny one won't be here because he uses the f-word a couple times in it.) In a response 'video,' there were a couple places where I could've used the f-word ... but I think I did the appropriate artist thing and used 'frigg' instead. (And I say 'video,' but I'm too lazy to do much better than an audio-with-picture-background.) I might also mention another name that is reserved for justified occasions: the name of God. We who know His name know that it isn't 'God,' but that expletive use of the name marks those who do not "deserve" to know it. With More Devotion to than Words Dare Express, Uncle MythMan

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thx rawnak, I like to see

people's opinions and I always keep an open mind. Do you observe the same behavior where you're at? It's interesting. Al-Jazeera reports that after the US, the country that has the most young people cussing is Tunisia in Africa. Although I wrote the post before I learned that info, I think it's interesting that the subject is coming up internationally. (BTW, I have no idea how Al-Jazeera studied that or backs up the statistics, my arabic is shaky at best.) Peace, Mia NW Visit my recent posts at: http://www.xomba.com/user/mia_northwest Get paid to be a xombie! Join us here at: http://www.xomba.com/referral/77793fec Thanks!

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Good Sound Byte.....!

You have hit the raw nerve again! Mia, great post. You bring out valid points and observations. loved reading it. +1 :)

wHATUP, you make me laugh

with this comment! :) I can understand the shock value and "look at me, look at me!" need of teenagers, I guess. Like I said, I was pre-caffeinated and really not into hearing the cussing at the moment!! Peace, Mia NW Visit my recent posts at: http://www.xomba.com/user/mia_northwest Get paid to be a xombie! Join us here at: http://www.xomba.com/referral/77793fec Thanks!

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MF'r

Back in high school we used mf'r for everything kinda like the "dude" commercial. "Hey, mf'r come here" "Look at that mf'r over there" "What's up mf'r" so and so forth. Sprinkle in the f-bomb and sometimes we could be speaking our own language. "F***ing check out what that stupid mf'r is doing with f***ing, mfing sh*t over there in that mfing place." Ahh the beauty of language. At first it was the shock value to piss people like Mia off but after a while it became a lexicon of our speech. So much so that when I went into the work force I had to really focus to sound appropriate. And my parents never cussed around me. go figure.

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