Do you trust your marriage Mate?

Is trust important in Marriage?

Yes and definitely yes. Trust is an important part in marriage as it brings the two couples together in bond that can never be broken. When this trust is lacking from either of the mate, it will be hard for this marriage or relationship to go anywhere. Even if this kind of relationship goes forward, as time goes in the relationship it will show that you don’t trust yourselves and ones this happens or is seen by all, the relationship is ready to hit the rocks.

If the above is the case, you will have considerable help in resolving any marital problems or conflicts if both mates cultivate a quality lacking in many marriages, this quality is trust. There is no trust between husband and wife, each being afraid that even private matters would unlovingly be spread about or misused in today’s world.

When such distrust exists, what hope is there that marriage mates will work together to resolve differences and improve marital ties after their wedding day is past?

As to the importance of trust in marriage, Professor Ned L. Gaylin wrote: “There are two cornerstones to a workable, satisfying, and lasting marriage: love and trust. . . . Without trust marriage is at best a fragile contract of questionable viability.” There must have been an open and trusting relationship. Each trusted the other’s love and felt confident that he or she could express inner feelings without being belittled or without such private matters becoming public information.

When you and your mate cultivate mutual trust, it will strengthen your marital bonds. You will have confidence that you can express your real feelings. And when you might discuss some difference of viewpoint or an area where one mate might make improvement, it will be less likely to be rejected outright or to result in defensive resentment. Instead, you will trustingly believe that your mate loves you and is sincerely presenting a view or suggestion that merits your reflective consideration.

This trust can be enhanced, too, by your reflecting on the tender, romantic feelings of your courtship and wedding day. Bringing to mind such warm memories will help you subdue any resentment or irritation. So if you are now courting or planning your wedding, do this in a way that will leave you with pleasant, peaceful, positive memories that will spark tenderness and other good feelings long after your wedding day is past.

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