Fighting For Our Grandson
posted April 24, 2009 - 9:52amI have really been thankful that everybody likes the stories that I write and the fact that they bring laughter and joy to the people who read them. What a lot of people don’t know is behind the scenes we have been fighting with the Department of Human services DHS” for the right to be foster parents to our grandson.
What we have learned is that they put on this lie that their number one concern is to keep the family together whenever possible, and we know other families that are going through this also. They are in it strictly for the money just like any other government agency.
We found out after spending thousands of dollars that even though we appealed there first decision and won that appeal in front of a judge, that they could appeal also. When they appealed, it went back into their own office, so of course they win that one.
Now we can appeal that decision for another thousand dollars, but then again it goes back to their office. You guessed it, they would win again. Then after all of that, we can take the case to the court of appeals for eight to ten thousand dollars more. We have no idea how we're going to get the money, but God knows. At least it takes the case out of their office and back into a court room.
You would think that they would be like anybody else, that when they appealed, the case would go to another judge that is unbiased and neutral.
I do understand that I have a rough past that involved drug activity, but if the State of Oregon can see that my life has turned for the better, and they have even expunged my record, and allow me to volunteer at the prisons to mentor other prisoners as they prepare to come out of prison, and the fact is that I work for Klamath County corrections, doing the same thing in a prisoner Re-entry program.
If we were the parents of this child then I would have to go through anger management and drug rehab., and during this time I could have supervised visits, and once I have completed this, I would be able to get my child back.
Being just grandparents we are not allowed visitation, even though I have completed all these things and more. It doesn’t matter that we are family and can provide a safe, loving, Christian home.
Our son is in jail awaiting trial. The mother took off and didn’t care in the first place. “I believe she ran because she is guilty of abuse”.
How do you fight a system that is above the courts of law? I just don’t understand how anybody could give any organization that much power.
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tuff
James & Sherry Grimes
Tuff Situation. Keep Praying
Very Touching
Leora
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Oregon DHS, another word for Gateway To Hell
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Thank you for sharing
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