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Is Hand-Shaking Old-Fashioned and Unhygienic?

posted May 13, 2009 - 1:00pm
Is Hand-Shaking Old-Fashioned and Unhygienic?


Look, no germs!
Michael Arrington has a problem: he hates shaking hands when meeting people. Why he should choose to air this on TechCrunch has baffled most commenters. What Arrington really hates is the idea of catching a disease off some sweaty palm. He frequently has to excuse himself and go to the nearest toilet to wash his hands. This sounds like he's morphing into Howard Hughes and he should see someone about this (without shaking hands).

However, he has tried to turn a personal obsessive-compulsive disorder into a mini-crusade against the whole cultural proclivity for shaking hands. His idea of promoting 'fist bumps' is puerile, potentially painful and still includes skin contact. He has even posted a second article claiming partial victory as one company claims to have held a board meeting without shaking hands - irritatingly they engaged in a round of... yes, fist bumps!

Thing is, not everyone in the world engages in hand-shaking as a form of greeting. Here in Thailand people 'wai' to each other; hands held together as if in prayer and with a slight nod of the head. If you're carrying something then the equivalent one-hand-clapping gesture is acceptable, and amongst friends often a simple nod is sufficient. In Japan people greet each other with a simple bow, although this can become exaggerated if there is a huge difference in social standing.

Anyway, the point is that hand-shaking is not universal. Should we dispense with it and accept a nod or a bow of recognition as sufficient greeting etiquette? Are there any other ways that humans greet each other?

As for Arrington, he could go down the politician's route of using Prevex hand-cream to form a protective chemical barrier against unwanted germs.

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I didn't know politicians

I didn't know politicians used some kind of cream to ward off germs--they do shake a lot of hands! Explain more about this cream, I've never heard this before... Join Xomba and Start Making Money from your Writing Today! Watch Over 100,000 Free TV Shows and Movies at www.graboid.com

kissing as a greeting

jdubhub> yes, I bet your shipmates suddenly had a completely different view about you! At the same extreme people in Italy and France will kiss as a greeting, cheek to cheek, and in other countries too like in eastern Europe. Has kinda migrated to the UK but can't say have ever seen it man-to-man in London! Join Xomba Here

The opposite ends: hand-crushers and dead fish

I believe a handshake should be firm and definitely not sweaty. I have an intense dislike for the males who overcompensate for something and feel the need to crush the hand of another deliberately. Of course, I don't understand the dead fish handshake, either. Probably the most interesting form of greeting I've witnessed was in Kuwait (when my ship was there in 1995) with the Arab custom of holding the hand of the person with whom you are speaking or walking, even two males. It is a sign of respect and friendship, which I knew before I visited (being one to read up on the cultural differences ahead of time), so I didn't pull my hand away. But, you should have seen the look on the faces of my less-than-enlightened shipmates as they walked past. CLICK HERE TO JOIN XOMBA TODAY!

handshakes that linger

Jeez! took ages to get that picture up - the padding was a problem - and the caption doesn't align... never mind. Right, back to business: hand shakes. Was just thinking about the different ways people greet. A handshake can take many subtle forms, from a power-trip to, say, one that lingers for slightly longer than normal... those are good! (sometimes) Join Xomba Here

Shaking hands should still be part of civilization

If we do away with the tradition, we are admitting to ourselves that we are a slovenly species that cannot be counted on to follow normal hygienic procedures. They sell hand sanitizer in discreet little bottles that can be hidden in a coat pocket to carry around the office or workplace to give one's hands a quick spritz after contact with another person, so there is no excuse to completely forgo showing civility toward each other. CLICK HERE TO JOIN XOMBA TODAY!

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