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How to communicate better in relationship

posted June 1, 2009 - 3:57pm
How to communicate better in relationship

Communication is very important in a relationship. People can break up if there’s poor communication going on. You can confuse your partner and they can get upset. You should be as clear as possible so that you don’t confuse your partner. Love is a fragile topic and people will get hurt over little misunderstandings. You should try to keep things simple and honest so people don’t misunderstand you.

Be clear

You can communicate in a clear manner instead of saying anything that comes to mind. Talking is like writing. It can be confusing if it’s not clear and exact. You can think about things before you talk to your partner. You should not play games either. Games will get the relationship on a bad track. You can confuse your partner and create jealously or misunderstanding. It’s hard to turn things back once it got to a certain point. The best way is to not play games. If you’re traveling for a week and you don’t want your girlfriend to misunderstand you, you can tell her exactly why you’re traveling and who you’re traveling with. You can make a phone call with your travel partner to let them know that you’re with that person. You should be clear about things that are going on in the relationship. If you’re angry with your girlfriend, you should tell her that you’re angry and see what she can come up with. You should not hide your feelings because she might think that everything is going fine.

Be honest

If you’re honest, you won’t have to explain later. If you’re dishonest you can make the other person angry when they found out about a certain event. If you’re going to throw a party with your guy friends, you should let her know and invite her over so she doesn’t think that you want to be alone with other women around. When you’re not picking up the phone and she called for at least five times, you can call her right back and say that you were sleeping when she called. If you don’t call her back within the next day, she might think that you’re doing something with someone else.

Ask about it

If you’re confused about a certain thing in your relationship, you can ask her about it. If you ask her about it, she might explain to you what’s going on. If she was gone for a week and you were home by yourself, you should call her and ask her where she went. You will feel better once she told you that she was in the hospital for surgery. If you want to have some time off from the relationship because you feel too bottle up, you can tell the other person that you want some space. You can tell them that you will get back to them after you have some time to yourself. If you’re wondering about a certain thing, you can ask them about it.



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She called at least 5 times!

This may actually be a sign that she is a bit insecure, jealous and not trusting to start with. You may want to break the "habit" because going into a relationship with these issues is not a good foundation. To call someone 5 times without an answer is a bit much. Call once, leave a message and wait for the return call. If it is an emergency or very important, THEN and only then make repeated calls. MJ - Sending happy thoughts and Smiles! Avatar: Betrayal and Retribution http://www.valkyrieart.com/Poser1.html

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