1. Express affection. This is very important in maintaining a relationship or showing love to a spouse knowing fully well that everyone wants to be shown some level of affection by others. It may be done by simply hugging, massaging, rubbing, scratching parts of a spouse body.

2. Shower gifts. No one frowns when given a gift. It is not only enough to give people gifts that we ourselves love rather we should give them what they love. You must endeavour to give your spouse that very gift you know he or she loves. Your gifts to your spouse does not have to cost you a arm or leg rather simply give him or her that which is appreciated.

3. Be available. Everyone wants to be surrounded by people they love or who love them. Make out time out of your very tight schedule to be with your spouse. The gift of time to your spouse is worth a million, hanging out with your spouse discussing or playing solidifies a relationship. It is recommended that you look out for and spend qualitative time with your spouse to create a loving impression.

4. Appreciation. Do not look or shy away from any good deed done by your spouse no matter how small, always express appreciation at each time the opportunity arises. Words like thank you for the meal, that dress is cute thanks, you are awesome today or even thank you for the ride are very good ways to get the interest and heart of a loved one.