Sure, you are beautiful, sexy and intelligent. You have been into dates quite a few times. But, don’t you ever wonder why you always end up dating a jerk and a good man seems to be so elusive?

These days, it takes more than just physical beauty to land on a good man. Men now go for the total package. So if you are on the market, make yourself sellable to the deserving prospective market by keeping in mind these simple reminders on how to get a man.

1. No pretensions.

So, you will be having your first date with someone. You are worried about what to wear, how to look and act with him. It is natural to feel that way but don’t ever make the universal mistake of setting your best foot forward.

If you have a hilarious laugh, don’t control it when you are with your date. If you are more on the conservative dress style, you don’t have to expose too much skin wearing your chosen dress for the night. If you have a liberal view (or otherwise) on issues that you may stumble upon during the date, don’t hesitate to express it.

If your date doesn’t like who you really are, better be rejected right there and then than expect that it will develop into something else only to be rejected once you show the real you on your second or third date.

2. Don’t be high maintenance.

Men don’t like women who are too complicated to handle. Being too demanding and being such a “drama queen” will make it very easy for a guy to dump a girl. Most men are free spirits-they just want to have fun. The last thing they want is to attend to every woman’s whims.

3. Assess Yourself.

Are you desperate to have a man by your side? Why do you need a man in the first place? If you want to get a man so you have someone to parade to your friends, your reason is wrong. If you want a man so you have someone who can be your “shock absorber,” forget it.

Make sure that you let go of your hang-ups first because if you got a lot of unresolved issues about yourself and the world, nobody would want to be with you. Trust me.

4. Quit playing games.

Nobody wants a player. Nobody wants to be manipulated. Be honest with your intentions and with what you want. Don’t say something and mean something else. If you want to get the respect and treatment you feel you deserve, you have got to give it to the man as well.

5. Be at the right place.

Did you ever ask yourself how to get a man in a bar- not just a man but a good man? Hmm…you may likely end up with a man with a drinking problem or a chronic partygoer. How about in a casino? You might eventually be influenced and become a gambler yourself.

Think of places where you may find decent men and make yourself visible in that area. Better yet, go to places where you can find men who share the same interest as yours.

Actually, to get a man is easy for some women and quite challenging for the remaining part of the female population. Don’t feel depressed if your search becomes failure, it happens once in a while. Just don’t lose your composure and enjoy every second of the search.

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