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How I Stopped Caring and Started Living

posted September 29, 2008 - 11:32am
How I Stopped Caring and Started Living

I chose the title of this article not because I don't care about anything, but because I am learning to separate out what is important in my life from all of the noise.

I love politics and debate almost as much as I love history and metaphysics. Let's face it: there is a great big world out there and lots of room for discovery and discussion. After having spent much of my childhood held back by ignorant parents and the public educational system, I don't like having limits placed on my personally inquisitive nature or search for knowledge.

But, how much is enough? On the one hand, there is the old saying "the more you know the more you realize you don't know." The more I read about and studied different subjects, the more I realized there was to the story. At some point, trying to get all the facts about something becomes a distraction and begins to look a little like an obsession.

While I dealt with the Internal Revenue Service for several years, I went back and read historical versions of many "current" documents. So much was I obsessed with finding out the IRS's weak-spots, I understood why lawyers have a certain arrogance when it comes to the law. I understood because I possessed a knowledge that few citizens possessed about tax law and how it should be applied.

What did that knowledge get me? Nothing. It didn't help me reduce my tax bill (not that I was making much as a retail manager), but it did give me lots of frustration once I understood that the power of law is not in the text but in its application. The IRS cared far less than I did, so we butted heads for a few years. It didn't matter that I was right and could prove I was right. When a government agency gets so big that it decides whether or not it cares anymore about its own rules, it is going to stop listening to the voice of the common citizen in order to further its own survival.

It probably doesn't help that the average citizen only hears about people being put in jail for questioning IRS "authorities" and that the "courts have held" has become the equivalent of "because I said so".

But, you know what? I don't care (and haven't for several years now). My mission in this lifetime is not IRS reform or fighting government corruption, so all of that time I spent butting heads with perhaps the most hated government agency was misdirected. I won't say "wasted" because I have learned a valuable lesson from my actions and won't make that same mistake again.

(If anyone decides that this is their mission in life, I will direct you to Google Larken Rose and read his detailed report or watch his video. It will open your eyes.)

Anyway, what I have learned is that we must find for ourselves what we came down here to learn and remain true to learning it without being distracted by causes that are not ours. My hope by sharing this article with you is that you realize your life path before you go too far down someone else's and lose valuable years you could have spent on your own goals.



Comments

@veghead--As You Sow Imaginary Seeds in the Imaginary Garden ...

(... so shall you reap.) I thought the moral was "Don't proclaim that 'what you're worth' is any more than what it's really worth." ---Uncle MythMan Enlightens You on Money Here! Xombies Enlighten on Money, Love, God ...Turn Xombie & Help!

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there are enough problems without seeking them out, mythman

like the current world financial debacle, e.g., but the moral to that particular tale is to hold onto your stocks, etc., until the economy settles down (in a year or two, hopefully). Sometimes passivity is absolutely the right move (and I wish all the hysterical investors who are busy selling off their securities, thus creating more problems for themselves and everyone else, would heed that advice). The reality is that all of us, out of boredom, hostility, depression or whatever, at one time or another deliberately create "disturbance"--in my opinion, that's why most wars happen--but sometimes disturbance can be a good way to stir the pot.

veghead's Xombytes

True vegh but There's 'Defending Peace' & Then 'Trying Too Hard'

If your peace is disturbed, naturally you want to seek the problem (and of course have already examined -yourself- so you know it's not-your-fault, etc.); but if you're just seeking problems 'for fun' (or whatev), peace isn't your goal---ask for disturbance and that's what you'll become. ---Uncle MythMan Enlightens You on Money Here! Xombies Enlighten on Money, Love, God ...Turn Xombie & Help!

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fresh meat market

quote SEO,"It was just another meat market..granted, some of the meat might seem fresher..." fresher? hey, man, you've been in Bangkok for way too long! made me laugh tho!! Money for your Thoughts - join now Epi-BV

@Wagen Load Pro.--Maybe You Should Check Your Profile's Settings

The only things going to MY email are Subject-subscriptions (which I chose) and these comment/reply-subscriptions (which I also chose) ... maybe there's a 'buddies' posts'-subscription that I chose not to get, maybe there's one I didn't choose. But I don't think there is. Ask "Help" or "Contact" (top-right page-corner) ---Uncle MythMan Enlightens You on Money Here! Xombies Enlighten on Money, Love, God ...Turn Xombie & Help!

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Buddies

No, buddies doesn't involve sharing email addresses (unless you indicate you want that, and I don't think you have to be buddies to do that). And you won't get notices of any new posts unless you want to. I just click on Buddy Posts to see what my buddies have posted lately. The only time I get email from Xomba is when someone comments on one of my posts (I've set it up so I receive this notification). Any user can send me personal messages through Xomba's messaging system, but I think you can choose not to receive these messages, too. I rarely receive any messages through my Xomba inbox.

Buddies?

I thought Buddie List is where you share personal e-mail addresses, and my email mailbox gets overloaded with notices of my buddies posts. Am I wrong?

@Wagen Load.P--The Buddy Thing ISN'T Personal in the First Place

It's just another way to be connected. As far as I know, it only means I link to you on my profile, you link to me on your profile and our posts show up in each other's "My Buddies' Posts"-lists (which is where I surf for the rest of the day directly after posting a couple of Xoms). If you would rather be associated with the unpredictable MythMan (or if you do, but only in secret), that's fine. And if there are any other qualities associated with 'buddy'-hood here, that's news to me! ---Uncle MythMan Enlightens You on Money Here! Xombies Enlighten on Money, Love, God ...Turn Xombie & Help!

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On the other hand . . .

You shouldn't be walking away with your tail between your legs when an injustice is done to you that can be corrected. That's how fascism takes hold: from the apathy of a country's citizens who believe it's too much trouble to fight the big guys. Being laid back has its limits!

veghead's Xombytes

Worrying: My Personal Adversary

Your life quest or purpose for being on this planet can be difficult to realize or very simple to comprehend. I have always had a strong affinity with children that needed a little extra attention and care, as well as a variety of animals. I found what I believe to be my calling in high school, THERAPEUTIC RIDING (essay). Therapeutic riding is the use of horses to help improve the physical or emotional condition of clients. This service is performed all over the world, especially for persons physically handicapped or emotionally abused/neglected. But, my dream was not to be, as I fell ver ill in college and lost the ability to walk for nearly a year. I am doing better now, but am still not physically able to handle the college courses to complete my double major in therapeutic riding and equestrian business management. Some days it is all I can stand to just keep on trying to get better and redirect my life torwards a connection with children and animals. Since I am bedridden 75% or more of the time, I’ve got too much time on my hands to think. My mind runs on and on, mostly worrying about things I can do nothing about. My worries sometimes overflow onto my computer, as in my rant on how kids are raised these days, concentrating on lack of parental responsibility and children from broken homes. Worrying is something I am too good at. I wish I could learn to just let go of the worries about things I can do nothing about. You can’t make a dollar buy more than a dollar’s worth of food. If you can’t afford to own a second pair of jeans, you can’t afford it, and you’ll just make do. If you have too much chronic pain to accomplish a task, you just do, and you’ll manage somehow anyway (if the task is urgent) or you’ll do it when you can (if it is a want and not a need). I tend to borrow problems from tomorrow, and I know better – For some reason, I still do it. I always feel like something is about to go wrong. Well, there’s a look inside my head; sorry for the uncomfortable ride.

shawnandlori

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