In a household of five children we use and appreciate the help of our children in simple chores. We have a five year old, a four year old, two three year olds and a two year old. All five of them help out equally to their abilities in doing chores. Obviously you can’t expect as much out of a two year old as you would a five year old so we set their tasks accordingly. The children really enjoy being helpful and we make it fun and interesting for them.

 

At two years old our youngest is able to follow basic instructions well enough to complete simple tasks. He can pick up toys, throw away trash and put his dirty clothes where they belong. Also it is not too much to ask of him to put his dish in the sink with some vertical assistance. He can help with carrying his clean clothes into where they belong. Helping put away groceries is another activity he can participate in. We can’t expect him to do everything perfectly and we may need to give him a hand with some stuff however he is quite helpful.

 

Our three year olds can do everything the two year old can. We also have them make their beds to the best of their ability and assist if asked. They can sort through the toys and put them in the proper boxes. They can help with sweeping and mopping as well as a little bit of vacuuming with assistance. They can sort their clothing and put their shirts and pants where they belong. They can put things around the house in the proper place (obviously keeping away from sharps). Putting their dishes in the proper sink by themselves and helping clear off the table is not too much to ask of them. At three years old they can do a good amount of chores and know where things go and how to put them there.

 

The four and five year old help with everything from above as well as rinsing plastic dishes and silverware. They can sweep and mop as well as vacuum themselves. Washing off the tables is a good task for them.  They take the bathroom trash out and empty it. Overall picking up of the house with slight direction can be a fun task for them. At four and five they can make their beds all by themselves.

 

Starting children young doing chores with lots of praise for work done well is very good for giving them a sense of responsibility. Spilled drinks are always cleaned up by the one who spilled it. Any chore that doesn’t require chemicals or sharp objects can be done by children at a young age. Obviously you have to give them encouragement and praise. They truly enjoy being helpful and they ask to help out around the house. We also on occasion have a pizza night where all of the children help in making the pizza. It doesn’t hurt to have your kids help around the house. Having everyone help also gives some more time for family fun time.