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How to Flirt With a Girl You Work With

posted July 10, 2008 - 8:50am
How to Flirt With a Girl You Work With

Ever had a crush on a girl at work? Read the following steps to learn what to do about it.

Steps

1. Be friendly greet her numerous times throughout the shift. Don't just throw compliments at her - say it only if you truly mean it.

2. Be helpful. help her with things that she is doing. If the boss tells her to do something, offer to do it or ask her if she wants help. Remember to back off if she refuses.

3. Talk. You can talk about all sorts of things. Try to stay away from boring work-related topics. You want her to see you as a person who is fun and isn't a part of the boring work day. Choose topics like movies, music, hobbies, etc.

4. Walk/wait with her after work. She'll see that you care about her if you stay a bit longer just for her. Ask her if she wants to carpool or go for coffee if you feel like it's the right situation.

5. If you are feeling confident, take her somewhere for some food or entertainment after work; Make sure that she is interested in you as well before asking her out or making weekend/evening plans.

Tips

1. Notice the signs. If she's not smiling back and seems irritated, it might be best to back off. Notice things such as her body language, how happy she seems, etc.
2. Relax. Be yourself and don't try to be someone else just because you think she might like it.

Warnings

1. Back away if you sense that she is uneasy around you.

2. Do not force her in any way. If she makes it clear that she is not interested, it's best to move on. If she wants to be just friends - accept it and respect her decision.



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