How to Turn every female on earth into your personal sex zombie !! Starting Now.

There are many sites and articles written on the topic of "How to be a Chick magnet". Most tell you that they alone have found the magic key to open the hearts of all women and make any girl you want fall in love with you overnight.Plus as a bonus five tips to make her crave your body for sex 24/7.

I must confess I have never paid for any of these top secret cure all programs and maybe I would be pleasantly surprised if I did.However,When I was in high school and up until I met my wife when I was 23 I never had a problem attracting women or getting a girlfriend. I married a girl who was far better than I ever in my wildest dreams thought I would get.

Unfortunately she died from Breast cancer in 1996. I never got a chance to date much after she died because 6 months after she died while still in deep grief and depression I met a young lady who made me feel loved and about 4 months later we married. She was also very attractive but not quite as mature or stable as the first one.
We separated after only 3 years and were divorced in January of 2000. So I have been living the single life for eight and a half years. With my first wife I experienced true love and a wonderful relationship built on trust. My second, was one of turmoil,deceit unfaithfulness by her and an ugly divorce.

I do want to say on behalf of my ex. she is doing well we have put the past behind and have a very good and healthy relationship. Which is in the best interest of our son.

After the dust settled I told my children I would never bring anyone home to be a part of our family that didn't agree with our family mission statement.

That mission statement was something we worked out together while on a camping trip. I asked my kids if you could live in the perfect family what would it be like. What do you want most in a family. I gave them a couple of days to think about it then I had them write their ideas on blank paper and fold them up. I did that so no one would be afraid their suggestion wasn't cool. Then I began opening them up reading them out loud and prioritizing them. This eventually lead to our Family Mission Statement.
It defines who we are, gives us a clear standard or goal to reach for, and when we get off course it reminds us of our destination.

So LADIES ESPECIALLY I would love some feed back on these suggestions of how to attract women.

1) Know who you are as a man and where your going.

2)Know what your looking for or want in a companion.

3) If you haven't done one in two stop right now and do that because women are not attracted to men (on purpose) that have no direction, goals , are over 30 and still trying to figure out what they want, who they are, and what to be when they grow up.

4) Look for opportunities to help out the single women you know with household chores they can't or don't know how to do and can't afford. Be a giver not a taker. Just be friends for at least a year. That's right be friends for a year and watch them over a year as different issues come up. This way you can see more clearly how they react under pressure.

4) Treat women with respect and like a lady even if you know she's a drug addicted whore. Why? because most likely it was one of our gender that made her that way. So quit judging her and calling her psycho when one of your buddies or some guy at one time took advantage of her ,treated her horribly, most likely physically abused her and then threw her away.Then goes around complaining about where are all the good girls these days!

5) Make a list of what character qualities you want, what sorts of habits and history you will or will not accept. Then stick to it.

6) Accept the fact that it is better to be alone and single then to compromise your entire list so for the short term you can get laid and feel loved. Only to later discover you shouldn't have compromised and settled.This only leads to broken hearts and another emotional setback.

7) Realize that though looks, to most men ,are a key element that eventually they will all look like either old ladies or old bags. Sorry ladies but its true with both men and women. People who live their lives always seeing things negatively with a victim mentality and blame everyone else for their problems and get more bitter as they grow older age faster. They have permanent frowns and many times are very sickly. So of course you have to be physically attracted to her but what should be most attractive about her to you is who she is as a person.

8) Yes, that's right you better know who she is and what she wants, or your back to step three. How do you ever find that out? Ask questions and I don't mean questions like " are you cooking dinner yet" or did you have time to mow the yard today? or where's the remote? I mean questions like "if money wasn't an issue and you could do anything you wanted for the next year what would you do? The next five? Until you die? Or think of some open ended questions that will give you an idea of what her hopes,dreams, past things she's proud of and those that still cause her pain. Be truly interested in her as a person.

9) When it comes to the physical part of showing affection and all that leads up to sex, quit thinking about how good its going to be once you get past the foreplay and get to put it in for 30-60 seconds, then sigh and rollover to fall asleep like a selfish jerk. Instead read sex manuals written by women and magazine articles. If you don't already know how to please her this well point you in the right direction. Here again the best way to find out what she likes most and what she doesn't is ask her and then be sure and listen to her answer.
I have found that when I completely forget about my own desires and completely focus on making sure that when we are through she will have a very satisfied smile on her face and hopefully say something like " Wow I haven't had sex like that in long time as a matter of fact that was about as good as it gets" You really turned me on and made me feel so sexy" Hopefully you get it by now. This can't be faked on your part because if your just doing it to ultimately get what you want she will know. But if you sincerely care about her and really want to treat her to the best time in her life trust me you will be rewarded for your unselfishness and will most likely be laying next to her saying " I know me too that was awesome"

10)Finally when your fortunate enough to find someone who matches your list, mission statement, and she is your best friend, then you better quickly realize you have found a most precious gem. A very rare beauty.Many men will live and die never having the good fortune of such a valuable find. If you have found one treat her as such. Realize that she is more precious than any jewel and treat her that way. Not just today but everyday and constantly do all you can to understand how you can please her , love her and make her feel like the princess, she always knew deep down she is. Never look back and never let up until death do you part.

You see I experienced this for eleven years of marriage and two of dating so for 13 years I was one of the fortunate ones. I still hope that I will some day find another rare jewel. Oh yeah one more thing I am not out desperately searching for her I am instead focused on my personal goals and my children. That is I am focused on what I can do something about. Yes that would be me. I still need much improvement and I want to be the best man she ever met. That's a real challenge and I know I have a long way to go.
SO GUYS HERE IS THE BOTTOM LINE THE REAL SECRET AND ITS FREE. BE A REAL MAN AND NOT A LOOSER. GO TO WORK, BE RESPONSIBLE, QUIT LYING AND CHEATING, BE SELF CONFIDENT AND NOT A WHINY MAMA'S BOY LOOKING FOR A MOMMA TO TAKE CARE OF YOU, FEED YOU, PROVIDE YOU WITH SEX ON DEMAND, WHILE YOU SIT ON YOUR BUTT AND GET HIGH. WHILE SHE IS AT WORK. IF YOU WILL FOLLOW THESE REALLY COMMON SENSE GUIDE LINES I BELIEVE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH WOMEN WILL IMPROVE DRAMATICALLY.

Ok, maybe I didn't really tell you how to make all the women in the world become sex zombies who want you and you alone. Sorry but the truth is if that is what you wanted to do to women, then you really needed to read this.

Finally I suspect many of those relationship gurus that charge $30.oo -$75.00 for their secrets don't really have much more insight to women then what you just got from me for free.
So Ladies am I all throwed off, crazy, or on the money?