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How I Walked Away from Politics Without Regret

posted December 3, 2008 - 12:59pm
How I Walked Away from Politics Without Regret

For as long as I have been on Xomba and on the Internet, my interest has been in politics. My first experiences in political debate took place during the 2000 presidential campaign and gained momentum after 9/11, Afghanistan, and Iraq. Even here on Xomba, I've been involved in some knock-down drag-out fights over 9/11, Iraq, South Ossetia, all culminating in the 2008 presidential election.

I'm done.

For some time now, a quiet storm has been building in my soul. This storm has its source in the Universe and the Law of Attraction, which I know is my past, present, and future. Where I want to go in my life is somewhere far more important than armchair quarterbacking politics. The fact of the matter is, while I found myself giving into the temptation to join the fight, I would lose myself in the fight and end up not liking what the negative energy would create for me.

I wrote an article recently about how I unsubscribed to several different e-mail lists and sources. I didn't add that I had over 10,000 e-mails downloaded and stored on my hard drive, in addition to the hundreds I received every week in my inbox. I took the step of faith two nights ago by deleting every single e-mail from my files that had to do with politics or "fighting" the power.

There are two circles in our lives: Circle of Concern and Circle of Influence. While the circle of concern is much larger because it encompasses everything our senses notice, our circle of influence is the more important because it only encompasses those things that we can change ourselves. Politics is one of those things that falls under the circle of concern for most people, myself included.

What a difference those steps made to my mental energy level. I am no longer energetically bogged down in the day-to-day over-wrought emotional morass that has become political debate. What I do now is focus on what I CAN change, which is "me" and how I look at different situations. I give positive energy toward the Greater Good of humanity without taking sides because I have come to understand that the only way to improve the world is for each of us individually to improve our own lives. If everybody just focused on being 100% true to himself or herself, then imagine how much better the world could be!

That's why I've been able to just walk away from politics without any regret. I know that what I am doing will make a bigger difference in the world.



Comments

@jdubhub-astrowoman-mythman--Salvation is TWO Steps!

I was going to comment on the Buddhist Path of the Example (and probably shall later), but your statement about "making a change" reminded me of something that comes up again-and-again in Bible-study: Forgiveness save you when you 'face-away from the sinful way you've been walking' AND Walk the New Way! That's one reason why Protestant ministers aren't a valid as Catholic priests; Catholic priesthood is an ENTIRE LIFESTYLE, while Protestant ministry--while I'm absolutely certain that most Protestant ministers are as penitent as the Pope--it's more like 'what the Protestants do in public.' On the Path of the Example: Enlightenment shows that the person and it's environment are inseparable, but that the person can also start change in the environment by force of will. However, the person's will cannot be changed by anyone but the person itself. Therefore the bodhisattva tries to convince the person that the will needs to change. And the only way for the bodhisattva to do that (without violence) is to put itself in the position of the soul in need of change and to befriend the soul as the bodhisattva makes the changes necessary to get itself out of 'need of change.' ---Uncle MythMan (http://www.geocities.com/jmythh2k5) & the Xombies Echo the Universe & GET MONEY for Discussing the Wonderful World Above & the Beauty Around Us!

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Thanks, astrowoman...it took me a while but I am happy

It took me a while to finally get here to this point in my life where I could make a lasting change. I am happy now even though it has meant changing how I approach my writing. One thing I also noticed is that, once I made the decision to change, it was relatively easy. If I had tried this even a few months ago, it would not have been the right time and the change might not have stuck. But, isn't it that way with many things in life? We will make a change but only when we are committed to making that change with the full 100% of our being. Thanks for your comment! JOIN XOMBA IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO ADD!

good article

deciding what to cook for the kids is more productive than debating on how the world's politics should be run. At least that way one has healthy kids. I like your article and your decision.

Thanks, mythman...but I am not a politician

One key difference between me and a politician is this: A politician may speak with words of honey while silently holding contempt for his constituency. I, on the other hand, hold words of honey in my heart and want the words I speak to reflect that. The challenge with my participation in raucous political debates is that the words that came out of my mouth and onto the keyboard became words of contempt. My goal is to lead an exemplary life and use the way I live my life as a testament to individuals being successful while still finding their own way. By striving for excellence at all levels, I hope to change the dialogue people in all walks of life have with each other. Beyond just me in my life, which is the only thing I can personally change, I have a responsibility to my son to show him the way and teach him. That will be my legacy to the world. Thanks for your comment!

Step 2: Convert Home to Swamp & Walk Around on Your Knees

I knew it was you before I even opened the article, jdub. The taking-sides: that's one of the curses of 'writing for public audience'---you HAVE to take a firm stance (and, in the realm of politics, it seems that 'firm stance' means 'being for-or-against.') Imagine if you were writing a love-letter to the public (which is essentially what a politician's writing is) ... would you remind them of all their bad reactions in a 'fair-and-balanced' way, or would you tell them how great they all are and the great things that will become? If only Robin Meyers could rest his pen and give in to the local hordes who want to DENY that Barack Obama is the best- and only man for the job of President of the United States as all the regretted-history thumpers of Oklahoma do. But--alas--he cannot, as he must stay true to his responsibilities as an exemplar for the reason-nazis of the future! That's why I reinterpret the Expedient Means teaching ("be present where I ought to be and nowhere else, until I ought to be present somewhere else") as 'think the way I ought to think (and no other way) until I ought to think some other way.' ---Uncle MythMan (http://www.geocities.com/jmythh2k5) & the Xombies Echo the Universe & GET MONEY for Discussing the Wonderful World Above & the Beauty Around Us!

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Thanks, Tina...you're right--we should be seeking cooperation

The world is indeed already full of divisiveness and contempt toward our fellow human beings. If anything will be the legacy of the current Administration, it will be that. That's why I left. I would rather stay focused on the solution to making this world a better place than remain on the other path and contribute to the problem. I am happy that you are of the same mindset and are sharing that mindset with others because we need more people who seek positive change to push the world in a better direction. I am excited when I look to the new year because I can see and feel the potential for positive change in the world and just the idea of working with others of like mind and heart to make it happen. Thanks for your comment! JOIN XOMBA IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO ADD!

I agree

I agree with getting out of politics. At one time I had subscribed to political blogsites and websites, eagerly snapping up every opinion and word that was written. If the writer didn't like a politician or law that I didn't, wonderful. But when I disagreed- oh, boy. Just let me post one comment that didn't agree with the crown (excuse me, crowd) and I was subjected to demeaning, degrading and snide comments as well as name calling and ridicule. What happened to "respecting" each other's opinions? I came to believe these folks have no intention of changing anything- they just want to complain. So I ended my trek through the blogs (more like bogs) and websites, and my life is much happier. It's much more fun to write positive, happy and funny stuff to make someone's day brighter. Tina Gallagher

Tina Gallagher

Thanks, MJ...I'm smiling over here! :p

My approach is going to be more Zen-like. I am focusing on being happy and peaceful before writing anything, which will cause that energy to be transferred to my writing. I have learned that people have enough in their own lives that can create fear, worry, and other negatives without going to a "writing" website and being made to feel worse about themselves, especially from others from within the same writing community. My goal is to be one of the rays of shining light on Xomba and the Internet where people can come to feel positive energy and get help in creating a plan to deal with all the negatives in the country and world. Anyone can look at CNN or Fox News and feel bad. It takes someone with stronger writing skills to help someone feel good about themselves and empowered. JOIN XOMBA IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO ADD!

You won't have to worry about post-partisan depression here! ;)

Looking at the changes I've already made or am in the process of making regarding my writing subjects and style, I know in my heart that they will stick. At the next rung on the evolutionary ladder, as you called it, is where my next level of writing will commence. JOIN XOMBA IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO ADD!

you don't realize how much influence you have on others,

some of whom may mock you and claim they don't agree with you in a public comment, but take your ideas to heart in private, and may eventually be converted to your POV--or at least come to comprehend and respect your POV. Everybody has an ego, and very few will admit that they've been proven wrong about some opinion they cherish. Trust me, your political views have not fallen on deaf ears. In my case, I know for a fact that through my take-no-prisoners, highly opinionated style of writing I've influenced people to at least cut down on animal products, and that's what it's all about: changing minds for the better and improving the world the old-fashioned way, one person at a time (although it moves a little faster on the Internet). As for those who refuse to change out of sheer obstinacy, there's nothing you can do about them; they're their own worst punishment, they have to live with themselves for the rest of their lives, and they're not worth worrying about or getting upset over. I'm looking forward to reading your future xombytes, whatever direction you go. Just don't get too namby-pamby post-partisan on us! That would be depressing. ;)

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