People sometimes think that things in their lives are our of their control, and they are not responsible for situations that they get themselves into. This is not so as we are all creators of our own reality and we attract every single circumstance into our lives by fearing it. How we do this is by allowing certain things come into our lives at our own discretion. We do not have to let something get out of control in our lives if we do not want to. The only reason why things don't go the way we want them to in our lives is because of the mere fact that we, half of the time fear a lot of situations and do not understand a lot of things and therefore cannot manifest exactly what we want in life.

How we are reflections of people and situations around us is easy to understand. If we are in a situation with an individual and we experience difficulty or oppression, we must simply look inwards at ourselves to identify the cause of the oppression. The only reason why would feel insecure or uneasy is because of the fact that we are afraid and are not confident in our abilities to associate with another being for whatever reason. If we look at this rationally we can see that, if we were able to overcome these fears and insecurities about ourselves we would be able to assertively change the situation.

Everything that we experience within ourselves, outwardly is an inverse and opposite manifestation. In life we will experience many trials until we learn to be completely at peace and centered within. The only reason why we go through such things in our lives, such pain, and suffering is because of the fact that we need to look at ourselves and refine ourselves first. We wonder why we suffer and attract such negative things in our lives, but we never look at the source, ourselves, to find out why. All the answers are within and are waiting to be uncovered by ourselves,. Once we can undo the conditioning and false perceptions we hold about ourselves we can begin to see that everything and everyone around is actually no different than we are. If we are constant and one and the same, so will everyone else be around us. We will realize that we are the "one" and our lives and people in them, are at our whim, free to "be", as we will them to be.

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