Insight about your man's sexual needs
posted November 4, 2008 - 9:36pmEver wondered why your man just seems to want make love all the time, even when you feel emotionally unattached. Well let's take a look
Its a proven fact that Men are physical human beings, all we have to do is see a pretty women to get aroused. A woman's arousal is for the most part tied to her emotions. Basically a women will say am I being provided for, are the kids happy am I happy, then she can start to get aroused. This is the reason why when a women let go of their sex life first when they feel threatened by the husbands lack of attention. A man can be about to blow his top he's so mad and then his spouse walks past him naked or come out the shower and he gets horny.
Even though you may be upset at your husband or even emotionally unattached you should try your best not to turn your man down all the time. Trust me I know plenty of men who lose interest after being turned down enough from their wives. If you tell me I can't have cereal enough eventually I am not going to want cereal any more. This is the way men and sex work together. The hard part is finding a happy medium. Men will not tell you this so I am going to tell you.
A man can get completely turned off he is repeatedly turned down by his wife. Contrary to popular belief sex for a man is not about him getting some. Sex for a man is more about feeling like the women is pleased. Pleasing a woman makes a man feel like a king. When men get around their friends and brag and this is exactly what we do, we don't brag about getting some, no we brag about everything the women did. Men will usually brag how loud the lady screamed, if she had an orgasm, how freaky the women was, or if she went down on him or not. Does these comments fit any description of you. I promise you these four things are what men brag about the most. Your husband will not tell you this but this is the honest truth. I never heard a man brag about a women being quiet in my entire life. So if you are going to make love to your husband even though you don't feel like it be careful. If you are not enjoying yourself this will turn a man completely off. What I am saying is if you give it to your man even though you are not in the mood, and you show no emotion at all. You are skating on thin ice because this is a turn off. What makes us want you is actually you wanting us.
I guess us men have big ego' s and we need to know that we are great in bed. Haven't you noticed men always ask am i the best you ever had. I'm not saying lie but if you tell your man otherwise you are destroying his ego. The better the man thinks he is in bed the better the love making will be.

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