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Commenters: Poopyheads or Grown Adults?

posted September 9, 2008 - 12:17pm
Commenters: Poopyheads or Grown Adults?

I have written previously that comments add value to our articles. They do it in three ways: (1)adding additional information about the original article that helps the reader understand a little of the background; (2)by driving more traffic to the article, more traffic meaning more clicks; and, (3)by having other Xombies interact with the Xombie who wrote and submitted the article, thereby fostering a sense of community.

Most of the time, we Xombies leave comments that add value to each other's articles. Still, there are other times, particularly in the politics and religion sections, where a select few feel the need to leave a comment disagreeing with the original article, but, rather than leave a constructive criticism or say why they disagree with the premise of the article, they simply leave a "that is stoooooopid" in the article's comments section or attack the writer of the article ad hominem.

(For the record, ad hominem attacks don't just refer to calling the writer epithets, which are the most blatant, but using deliberately misleading generalities to make the uninformed reader believe the writer is something he or she is not. I have been guilty of the latter in the past, so I am not throwing stones here.)

Since we are a writing community, it is incumbent upon all of us to honor that there are as many valid viewpoints as there are members here and that common courtesy dictates that we only leave comments in the articles of other Xombies that add value to the article or succinctly and politely (as opposed to something found on the schoolyard) explain why there is a disagreement with the original article.

Our magnanimous benefactor, Nick, and moderator, Jeremy, have stated that they are okay with there being heated debates related to articles posted on Xomba. You won't get any argument from me that it's okay for Xombies to show passion for our writing and beliefs. I would remind the reader of Xomba rules that state that ad hominem attacks are proscribed and that there are certain rules of decorum.

We are all in this together, ostensibly to make money for our writing efforts, so there is no reason for any of us to expend time and creative energy fighting each other when we could just as easily be building each other up and making more money than we are now. It is our choice.



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@kjhack--Semantics Disconnect the Words and the Meaning

I was saying that it's almost-GOOD that you feel 'driven into' some responses (though you might've meant that you felt driven into 'fighting fire with fire' instead of giving the words of the Immortal, "I know you are, but what am I?" and moving on from there). Because the world doesn't happen because of the people watching UNLESS/UNTIL the people watching react! ---Buddha tells Uncle MythMan, "Flood the Open Eyes with the Truth, for as Long as You Exist!" Help Him Spread the Truth (about stuff) Here!

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Response

Just wanted to make a response. here, and say I totally agree with you mythman -- even if I don't totally understand what you're on about. :) ↑ Grab this Headline Animator

 
 

@kjhack--(lol) C`mon ... What, Yuh Chicken? <}8-P

Really, response is what feeds Abmox; in Paradise, people would almost be complaining that our debates are TOO constructive. But our subconsciouses are too 'animal' to see past the destruction to see our criticism as the beginning of re-construction! Just like we wouldn't expect sunrise without ~asahmkhyas~ (lotsa bunches) of brief-horrors-of-sunsets trained into our minds. ... but Uncle MythMan still KNOWS you're more awesome than NFL Cheerleaders, yet needs to hear *your* comments on http://is.gd/2s8V http://is.gd/22wY http://is.gd/1fSs http://is.gd/1fRg http://is.gd/1fSe & http://is.gd/1fSj -- Click His Stamp to Discover!

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Well said

I let someone bait me into a less than civil response this morning, but I won't make that mistake again. ↑ Grab this Headline Animator

 
 

Thanks, Wdzzz. It is something that should make sense to all

Being supportive of each other and helping each other make more money should be something that makes sense to all of us. The sense of community that Xomba provides is key to keeping the energy positive and the creativity flowing. DO YOU HAVE THE WRITE STUFF?

Thanks for the great article.

Good one. Appreciate you.

A Selection of Wdzzz's Recent Articles

No Skipping the Full Prayer: A Good Reminder

Have you been a church's service and heard the celebrant say, "Our Father, who-- ... oh, you know the rest ..."? I haven't, and you know why? Because 'God' (here I'm talking about everything God is, not ~just~ the Father) needs to be reminded of all the conditions of Jesus' prayer. And we need to be reminded (almost as often) that 'it's nice to be nice.' But we need to be reminded, because 'nice niceness' isn't as noisy as name-calling (so it's not as easy to notice) and especially because (just on very-very rare occasions) not-nice is "right." But 'not-nice as a rule' is NOT 'right.' Particularly the ad hominem attacks (no specific examples; but I'm sure I'VE said some things that might be the same words a 'servant of satan' uses, and have been called 'a servant of satan' because of them). Pulled into such a 'debate,' I tried to pull the 'stupid' tactic of fighting 'stupid' fire with 'stupid' fire; but Jeremy/Nick helped me find this wisdom: 'Judge the words, not the writers!' ...Does Uncle MythMan know you're still awesome-like-the-2008-Olympics? or is`e just commenting here to hear *your* comments on http://is.gd/22wY http://is.gd/1fSs http://is.gd/1fRg http://is.gd/1fSe & http://is.gd/1fSj ?? Click`r Stamp to Discover...BOTH

---when You Join Xomba, you can join this- and MythMan's other-hot discussions!

Happy to help, Jeremy

I enjoy interacting with other writers and learning their stories, something that nobody is going to find banging out a blog elsewhere on their own Blognet-type webpage, so I find it curious that the very thing that makes Xomba so attractive for community-driven writers is something that is used by the few to attack others. Xomba's strength is its community and we should all be working to keep that community strong and supportive. DO YOU HAVE THE WRITE STUFF?

Thanks Jdubhub

If everyone remembers a few blogs ago, Nick warned that if people don't relax we will have to dole out 10 day suspensions. You can disagree with an article and make constructive criticism but you cannot personally attack any user.

Kristen Malmed
Online Communications Specialist

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