LEGALLY AUTHORIZED SEX
Let’s take a walk, tell me if you like music or poetry, and what genre of music or poetry do you love most. Is it Beethoven or Backstreet Boys? Pop, Rock, Gospel, Country, or Rhythm & Blues? Or you just love any rhyme that jingles. Music reveals a lot about a person. You’ll get more than just a hint from the choice of music someone listens to, people exhibit wonderful qualities.
Relationships differ in various ways from: parent-child, student-student, co-workers, and most of all the exquisite one is that between boys and girls. This relationship is ultimate in a sense it occupies most of our emotions and time but we all need help on how to figure out true love from lust and infatuation.
Infatuation is really creepy they say its love but it’s something that goes around people’s minds very captivating and intriguing you fall for the perfect picture of a person you see and conclude it as a perfect love story. It starts like a sense of life in the atmosphere: you get funny feelings, goose bumps, and butterflies. Then you conclude this is ‘love’ but No! That’s infatuation “a natural phenomenon of passion and affection but only temporary”.
It happened to me more than once and I thought it was life having a the link with destiny or maybe am just caught in the middle, they say its love but its not you either believe it or ride the horse of experience and then you will reach the destination of facts only then would you believe that true love is mild, gentle, and forever alive. Love in a million poems from different views can never express its true meaning to you because you alone know the beauty and feeling you have. If love were as simple as infatuation we would have less stories and movies about love because it’s common. But true love is rare if you believe it, it is impossible if you accept it or take love as a big joke and a lie if you feel so, love is your acceptance of the meaning of life if only you take life as simple as it is. Then you can search for your need, not want and you will see life is as you take it to be and when you have found love in the right package you need not be told that you’ve got love and not infatuation.
It’s wonderful how complicated and beautiful it can be when you try mixing them, they turn out just like milk and oil: they don’t mix. So calm down and face facts, play your cards well to the best of your ability and make a difference.
Here’s a scenario possibly did happen somewhere in the world; imagine a religious lady who really worships God sincerely beyond the casual ritual of worship, a dedicated and known sister who never had sex or dreamed of it. She talks to God and she’s rest assured He always listens to her prayer. One faithful day, she gets raped by a mob of thirteen men one by one she feels the pain deep within, not just the physical pain but the pain of betrayal knowing she serves a God that can stop that from happening or even prevent it. But He doesn’t and thirteen times she get raped painfully feeling angry by every inch within, can you imagine the choice of words she would use if she was to bravely pray to the God she serves after the incident.
What would you say if it was you? Would you forget religion or cause God and die? Deep in your heart with all sincerity would you pray? Rashly the craziest thoughts come in handy, but what makes religion thick is the leap of faith. Blindly trusting in a principle or being you’ve never seen and what’s astonishing is the fact of being reassured and enormous peace within.
The girl prays a simple prayer that makes all the difference! Like the story of a man called Job, we should accept but good and evil from God knowing life belongs to Him and all we do is spend our time in faith that the world is blind to see.
You might be lucky if you’re still a virgin, lucky because you get to join the league of greatness through the chance to learn from the mistakes of others. Being a virgin is twice as hard, you get to stay independent knowing friends barely fall for that idea, and you stand the chance of losing it any moment with the wrong choice while holding on to something you’re not sure of. So hold on to it, the last thing you’d want to do is be ashamed of yourself for being a virgin. You’re a hero my friend and I celebrate people like you everyday, just hold on to what’s best. There’s a time and place for everything and once you’ve exchanged vows as a legitimate couple, the guilt of fornication switches in to a free and legally authorized sex. Instead of losing your self-esteem you’ll gain more trust in each other, respect, and create a bond of friendship. It’s an independent decision to hold on and hold out; just wait until you’re married it’s really worth every bit of it, Amazing…

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