By LeiraOlecra

The following are safe styles to make love with your pregnant wife and still enjoy it with some twist. Here are different positions you can pull off when she is expecting and ways to put an end to your usual practice and more.

• Purchase a sex book with great sexual illustrations of different positions and read it together. Break the old routine and experiment something else like a side by side position. The two of you would lie down facing each other, slip your leg in between hers and enter from an angle.
• Position a big mirror with some scented candles around so both of you can watch while making love and then lay her on the edge of the bed. Place her feet on the floor and spread out her legs for an easy opening for you. But remember to keep in checking with her if you are going to deep that my hurt her and the baby inside.
• Play a game that would require whoever loses strips a piece of you or her clothes. Then end the game by giving her combo, try variations of elating each other by oral and hand play. Opt for other ways to reach climax like mutual masturbation.
• Remember that although she is on her way this would give you limitations in places where you can make love. Recreate and do not be limited to just one place in the house. You may start in the living room or shower room, build up in the kitchen and explode in the living room with spoon position. Make her lie on her side curled in a “C” position while you curl beside and facing her back. This is kind a hard to do but very intimate step to enter from the rear and thrust in opposite motion.
• Usually, men are the initiators – you may change the rules this time and allow her to dominate and let her control how she would like to manager her sexual desires. You will be surprised to know that she would like to be on your top despite of getting pretty heavy on your back because of her condition. Let her take charge this time for an extra-ordinary pump.
• Remember that cuddling after sex is necessary especially during this time when sex is the most intimate expression of her feelings towards you. By spending a few minutes cuddling her afterwards would surely give her the security and assurance that despite her present condition you still like to make love with her with passion. This will assure her that she is right in trusting you.
• When you are both hungry at night, have a midnight snack together in bed and then fall asleep in each other’s arm will come naturally.
• If she think that it is not safe to do it considering her condition but she likes it but a bit worried that her baby will get hurt – wear condom.
• Making love during her pregnancy will take your relationship to another level. It is better to talk it out and let her express her expectations and limitations.
• During this intimate scene in your life together as husband and wife this is also the best time to plan out your family. After she gave birth how soon would be the next one. This is the best time to talk about important decisions in your life and deal with those questions left unanswered.
• Planning the family after a good sex will prepare you both financially and psychologically. It will also help you and your wife achieve stability and stay focus.
• Make sure that you listen to your wife carefully and get to know and understand her better. If your views happen to differ then your goals will be made clearer.
• Though she is pregnant, never lose the fun and excitement as a couple and because she is pregnant it means stop to sexual pleasure. No, go on – move on and explore. You can also go beyond sex like morning exercise together. Walk together hand in hand and keep everything in harmony.
• Be ready to become a daddy or a daddy again if that’s not your first baby. This means you need to continue taking care of you and your family all the more. If this is your first time to be a daddy – talk together who will explain the bees and the birds when the time comes. Be more prepare for money and other matters.
• When everything is okay between the two of you – get involve the physician and the expert. Have her check by the gynecologist and obstetrician and seek advice for a good family planning. The right spacing of children and more importantly – how to mold them as a good citizen of this mother earth and good children to their parents.

As a husband, you should be the one responsible in planning the family and prevent unplanned pregnancy. Continue talking to her especially now that she is pregnant, respect and trust her decision all the more.

NOTE WELL: Before posting this article, the author submitted this for review to Jeremy Nettles, Community Relations Manager and he commented “The educational sex posts are always the gray area on Xomba so I thank you for sending it to me first before you posted it. This article looks to be in good taste and gets my approval for posting”.