Here are some more myths associated with Sex.

MYTH: A candlelit meal is the ideal start to a romantic evening.

FACT: Not if you want it to end in sex. "Food," says myprimetime.com columnist Marty Klein, Ph.D., is a great sex killer. "[It] slows your metabolism, diverts your energy and can make you sleepy."

MYTH: Sex should be a straight path to orgasm.

FACT: "In real life, sex is rarely like this," says Klein. "We begin to take off our clothes, and may worry about how we look. All of these concerns can interrupt our excitement."

MYTH: Abstinence is many things, none of them sexy.

FACT: Not according to relationship experts who believe that taking a breather from all sex, or from just intercourse, can rev up desire and lead to new avenues of mutual pleasure.

MYTH: Great sex is the best way to prove you're a great lover.

FACT: Just the opposite is true, says Klein. "Great sex is about forgetting who you are — forgetting your ideas about masculinity or femininity, your desire to look good, maintain your dignity or patrol the boundary between you and the other person."

MYTH: Women want intimacy more than men.

FACT: "This myth hurts both women and men," says Klein. "It dishonors the genuine desires for connection that many men feel, and confuses and isolates them. It also forces responsibility for good relationships onto women."

MYTH: Men always want sex.

FACT: No, they don't, says clinical psychologist and therapist Bernie Zilbergeld. And the sooner they admit it, the more enjoyable their sex lives will become. He says men would experience less anxiety, fewer performance worries and greater comfort in the bedroom if they had sex only when their personal conditions were met.

MYTH: Erection difficulty is the worst kind of sexual problem.

FACT: "Erection difficulties and rapid ejaculation are among the most easily resolved sexual complaints," notes Klein.

MYTH: Sex ends with divorce.

FACT: John Berndt, a clinical psychologist specializing in divorce, believes as many as 20 percent of divorced couples end up sharing a bed at some point. And most of them aren't headed for reconciliation and remarriage.

MYTH: Men only like super-skinny women.

FACT: "Most women underestimate men's ideals for female weight and shape," says Klein. Most men like a little more meat on the bones. "Those skinny models are found in women's magazines, never men's."

MYTH: Men think about sex every 7 seconds.

FACT: That number is tossed around a lot, but the truth is that only 23 percent of men claim to fantasize frequently. But maybe the rest are just too distracted to check the clock.

MYTH: Oysters make you horny.

FACT: You make you horny. "There is no scientific evidence that oysters increase libido," says Dr. Pryor. "But there may be a placebo effect, so if it works, great!"

MYTH: The average erection measures 8 inches.

FACT: Relax, Shorty. It's closer to 6.

MYTH: Semen is low-carb.

FACT: "Semen is mostly fruit sugar [fructose] and enzymes--not low-carb," says Dr. Goldstein. Which finally explains why there's no Oral Sex Diet.

MYTH: Everyone you know is doing it.

FACT: Consider the statistics. More than half of teenagers are virgins until they’re at least 17 years old. Don’t believe everything you hear. People lie, and exaggerate, and can talk a good game when it comes to sexual antics. In the end, it doesn’t matter who’s telling the truth or not. The only truth that matters is what’s best for you. Yeah, that sounds corny-- but it’s a fact.

MYTH: Others can tell if you’re a virgin or not.

FACT: Look in the mirror. Is there a sign on your forehead that says, "Virgin!", or a big "V" sewn onto your shirt? With sex, it’s really tough to tell how experienced anyone is. Often, the people who talk the most about sex have the least real knowledge of it. Whether you’ve had sex or not, you should never be ashamed of your "status". It’s who you are. Regardless of how many people give you a hard time about it, you have to make the choices that are right for you. It’s much more important to be healthy and happy.

MYTH: You’re a prude if you want to wait until you’re older.

FACT: Actually, you’re smart. Most people who have their first sexual experience after the age of 18 report it being positive and meaningful. The likelihood of being more mature, and the likelihood of your romantic relationships being more committed and open, reduce the chance of sex regrets. Your early sexual experiences will shape your sexual attitudes for years to come, so better to start things off on the right-- er-- foot.

MYTH: Movies and TV portray sex as it really is.

FACT: Uhhh...That would be "NO!". Movies and TV are entertainment, not instructional Sex Ed films, and are designed to give us all an escapist fantasy. Maybe we’d all like sex to involve hot music, great lighting, and no talk of STD’s or birth control, but we can’t forget the difference between this dream world and reality. Sex is never what it is on the big or small screen, or even in books or magazines. Whether it’s awkward, embarrassing, hysterical, disastrous, mediocre, or earth-shatteringly fabulous, it’s different for every two people, every time, with different emotions, experience, and circumstances. It’s more complicated than a patchouli-scented candle and the right CD on the stereo.

MYTH: You can’t get pregnant the first time you have sex, or by doing it standing up, or by using douche afterwards, or when you’re stoned, or if you’re having your period, or you have irregular periods, or if you’ve recently had a child, or by doing it in a hot tub...

FACT: We’re sure you’ve heard some of these whoppers, or maybe some even weirder ones. Forget who you’ve heard them from, or how many times you’ve heard them. The truth is, you can get pregnant any time you have sex (unless, of course, you’re already pregnant, which means you’ve got other things to worry about). Even if you use a condom or other form of birth control, you can still get pregnant. The only 100% foolproof method of preventing pregnancy is by NOT having sex. So if you choose to have sex, regardless of when and how, know what you might be getting yourself into.

MYTH: Drinking and drugs make sex much more fun.

FACT: In the haze of being under the influence, that may seem true. But here’s the reality: substance use causes impotence, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm, and other not-so-fun side effects. It might feel good to have your inhibitions washed away by alcohol or drugs, but that also means you’re less likely to practice safe sex. So you might end up with the ultimate side effect: an STD or unplanned pregnancy. People are also much more likely to be victims of rape and assault when substance use mixes with sexual activity.

MYTH: The only way you can contract an STD is by having unsafe sex with more than one person.

FACT: It’s a cliché, but it’s true. All it takes is one time, with one person. With some STD’s, you don’t even have to have intercourse to be exposed to a sexually transmitted disease. Obviously, the more partners you have, the better your chance of getting an STD, but in the end (like getting pregnant), the magic number is One.

MYTH: Condoms keep you from feeling anything during sex.

FACT: Most of us have heard this one. Admittedly, it’s true that condoms can reduce sensitivity for the guy, but they don’t affect a girl’s sensitivity. They definitely don’t eliminate feeling completely, and the benefits of using a condom far outweigh any drawbacks. There are many varieties of latex condoms on the market, so it’s worth experimenting to see which condom is the most comfortable.

MYTH: If you masturbate, it means you’re lonely and perverted.

FACT: Experts agree that masturbation is can be a positive thing. And no, it won’t make you go blind, or grow hair on your palms. As Woody Allen once said, "Masturbation is sex with someone I love". Masturbation is a risk-free way to learn about your body and what feels good to you.

MYTH: Guys get terrible pain "down there" if you get them worked up but don’t have sex with them.

FACT: If you ask your mom, older sister, or another older relative, they’d probably tell you they’ve heard the same thing. This is a time-honored myth about sex. It’s true that guys will have some discomfort and muscle tension when they’re sexually aroused, but it will go away. It won’t kill them, and it’s definitely not worth doing something you don’t want to do just to cure a guy’s "blue balls".

MYTH: Girls never pressure guys to have sex—pressure always come from the male.

FACT: Again, there’s that generalization thing causing lots of trouble. Every person, and every combination of two people, is different. Pressure can come from anyone, regardless of gender, sexual experience, or age.

MYTH: Fooling around without sex is like walking out of a movie ten minutes before the ending.

FACT: There are no rules. Nobody’s going to give you an "Incomplete" grade for leaving sex out of the equation. Fooling around is what feels good and comfortable to both people involved. If it’s not right at this moment, this day, this week, this year, don’t do it. Sex, whether it’s oral sex or intercourse, is never a "must"; it’s always a choice. It can be much more fulfilling—and fun-- to explore different ways to physically express your feelings.

MYTH: If you really loved him or her, you’d want to sleep with them.

FACT: Loving someone and being ready to have sex with them are two different things. If you know you love someone deeply, try to concentrate on other ways to express it until you both know you’re ready. If someone you love is pressuring you to take that step, and possibly even threatening to dump you if you don’t, it says a lot about how they love you back. Intimacy is about communication, trust, and respect. In the end, if he or she really loves you, they’ll be willing to wait.

MYTH: Sex means instant adulthood.

FACT: Okay, so you can’t vote, drink, drive, stay out past midnight, or support yourself financially, but since you’re having sex, you’re automatically an adult? Don’t think so! Maturity is about a million other things besides sexual experience. Actually, it’s a lot more "adult" to focus on growing as a person.