The difficulty to reach orgasm in anxiety is one of its most ferrenhos villains, because it makes the pleasure of feeling an obligation, which prevents its completion.
The couples often desire to reach orgasm at the same time, which is not always possible, however some couples (in better harmony and relaxation), to size the degree of compatibility that immediate feeling of orgasm causes the complicity the enjoyment, making the two feel the same time.
Watch the orgasm of the partner is always very exciting, the orgasm simultaneously establishes the complicity and pleasure gained intensity indescribable. But for couples that this simultaneity is not true, cause the feeling of enjoyment in the other is a great stimulus in personal and sexual relationship.

The couples need to be less attentive to the performance of other and more attentive to the performance, often the expectation of not reaching orgasm feel the frustration causes a huge, precisely because inhibit the enjoyment, often frustrated in precise moment that would happen. Do not force the orgasm, he will spontaneously, provided there is a relaxation based on the feeling of pleasure.
Many women complain that they can not feel the orgasm, but the sex itself is very nice, is that are negotiating the most suitable time of orgasm and thus leaving out of line with the pleasant sensation that has inhibiting to achieve orgasm.

The orgasm can be understood as the maximum feeling of sexual desire, the fact that it does not occur simultaneously should not be classified into categories, as being of lesser value. The same when you orgasm causes stimulating, it's so big and important as the partner, the relationship has the approval of the other, which in itself is more pleasant, not necessarily stronger.

If you can not reach orgasm simultaneously, not angry, quite the contrary the fact you can feel the excitement of the other until his orgasm, and facilitates closer intimacy. If you usually reaches orgasm with a partner, take to deliver a special enjoyment of difficult description. The important thing is not available and relaxed to obtain a constant and intense pleasure.

The partner does not always know what is tasty and enjoyable for you, so do not deprive you to communicate with gestures or with words.

Do you understand the intensity of pleasure that is felt. Do not be afraid of their desires, seek the pleasure and sweetness with determination, he will come with an intensity that you can not imagine. Loosen up, the pleasure is his right, and can pay.

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