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Online dating: There is no safe place

posted April 4, 2009 - 3:45pm
Online dating: There is no safe place

Dating online can be a convenient but also a practice that raise some safety question. There are as many weird people online as in person, however, you meet them easily through the internet then in person. Usually, weird people don't like to socialize and you might not run into them as much at a local nightclub or at Starbucks but they're everywhere on the net. There's also some great people that are online and because of time constraint they try to meet people online and not everyone is weird or unsafe but women still have to take precaution. It's best to scan the person before you actually get close to them or talk to them on the phone and rarely meet them in person. You should always scan them for safety before you let them know things about yourself. It's never a good idea to let someone know your personal information like where you live, and where you work and where you usually hang out. I've been stalked before by someone I've talked to online so I know that it's dangerous.

What can you do when you're busy and you don't get to meet people as often? You end up going on the Internet. Dating has been happening mainly through an online chat room or dating service nowadays. It's not easy meeting people outside in real life. If you do meet them how do you know that they're single and available. It's not that easy walking up to someone and asking them out for a date. You would fear rejection. What if this happens? They may think of you differently if you're a woman and you approach a man.

Things are not that easy when you're out in public. You don't have a lot of choices either whereas in a chat room you can talk with the entire state where you live in and you get to choose from a wide variety of people. If you go out in public you will only see a couple of people and it doesn't mean that you can get along with them. Dating without the Internet is more difficult. Dating online
make everything easier. You will at least know that they are single and that they're looking for a date. They have the opportunity to approach you online or contact you if they like your profile. They can pass you by if they don't like you and vice versa. I have dated a couple of people online that were great. They were doctors and lawyers who presented themselves very well and they're attractive too. Dating is mainly online for most people and especially for men because it's hard to meet people in person.

Although it's convenient but there'll be some safety issues. Not everyone you meet on there is nice and educated. There are a lot of predators or people that are ex-con and you'll never know who they really are until you have to find out later and it may be too late. You just have to take the time to get to know them first before you meet them and you have to call them and talk to them because you can tell how people are by their voice. You can pass them if they don't sound like a safe person. You can go to meet a nice person but always go with a friend or meet up in a crowded public place so that you're safe.



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