I may be a 'special case' in this regard, as my only 'could-a-should-a-would-a' option was/is to be patient while those who are "responsible" realize the 'responsibilities' they owe for what they 'could-a-should-a-would-a' done regarding their failure to appropriately prevent/do-justice-for my near-death, paralyzing, raging will to live!

That will to live would normally justify skipping over a few 'would-a-should-a-could-a's; but I was "too young to have lived before I died," so the life that was stolen from me apparently wasn't worth more than the bare-bones means-income I scrape-by on (which the credit-system is too unforgiving to let me 'manage.')

Your are also stuck with `em, but–unlike me–you can pick yourself up by your own bootstraps (which no one will do for you without at least a little of your help) and 'dig around the pit to find success!'