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Relationship: why married people cheat

posted April 18, 2009 - 10:25pm
Relationship: why married people cheat

It's a sad thing but yes married people do cheat all of the time. What should we do about them as a society? Should we take their clothes away and have them stand in front of Albertson with a sign that says " I cheated on my wife". This is something that could make the
victim feel better. We all have been through this problem before. We all have walk in our partner with someone else and the feelings of betrayal is one of the worst in the world. All of the sudden you feel like you can't trust another thing that breathe again. Betrayal really do hurt a lot. I've been through it at least 9 times and I'm sitting here typing this article because I wouldn't want to waste it on another cheater. Don't we all feel the same way?

What do you do when you found out that they've cheated on you? Do you confront them or just keep it quiet? Do you leave them or no? Some people would end in a rage and you don't know what they will do when they're in a rage. Love is a thin sensitive string. It could break with a single breath. How would you feel if you're living a lie and you won't find out until another year or so. This is the scary part. It's better if you found out but it's not good if you don't know. What you don't know will hurt you deeply. The sad thing is that cheater will keep it as a secret. I have seen it all. They won't tell you. This is the worst part. It's better when everything is out on the table and you can move on with your life but this is not the case with cheater. In a world that requires socializing, you will often find that your mate will meet someone when they socialize. It's bad but that's how things are.

The number one spot that people meet new people are at work. I've read so many story as to how men or women that are married found another person at work and then they would hide it and have two relationships. One day when their relationship grow they end up leaving you. You could just go
red over this. Life is not fair or so you think. Now I know why there's Noah's Ark because God is not liking our sin. For some of us we are very religious or keep to our principle. We don't sin and we don't like see other people committing sin against us. I think it's a sin to cheat on your husband or wife because you share so much together and you even have children together. Despite everything people will cheat and they'll get a divorce and then cheat again. People just don't learn or repent. It's sad. I've even seen how one wife was looking for the mistress so she can talk business. Yes! infidelity drives people over the roof. If you don't believe it just tell them that you found someone new.

People cheat after awhile. People cheat when they're not happy anymore. One partner give the other partner a reason to cheat. It takes two to tangle. Not everyone cheats but there're those unstable and rocky relationship that will usually sink to the bottom of the pool. You can assess your relationship to see how good you're at. If you're good then you don't have to worry about it but most relationships are as rocky as ever. Why? Because most people married for reasons other than love. If you marry for money or security you'll learn that you're sugar daddy or mommy will get bored pretty quick and they're on their way for another honey. This is a common thing. We've all seen. Sometimes cheater deserve to cheat too. Other times it's just a sin.



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