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Relationship: Why men don't want to get married

posted April 14, 2009 - 11:03pm
Relationship: Why men don't want to get married

There is a revelation going on that there're at least 20% of men who are not into marriage. This is saying that we could be dating someone who is afraid of marriage or doesn't want to ever get marry. They're saying that these 24-35 years old men don't want to have anything to do with
marriage. They're saying that the reasons are because these men have come from a poor family upbringing and thus are discourage about marriage, women and children.

I think that this is quiet true. I'm for once was afraid of children. This is due to my family history. I have a lot of siblings and they're very dependent and thus I feel that I already have enough children and I'm not interested in any more children. I think this is true of men who grow up with too much problems in family or responsibilities. A person can only handle so much. They're not interested at all because they simply don't want the responsibility. I can see why they don't want that responsibility. I don't have a problem with men who don't want to get marry. It's just their personal choice. If you're in one then you may want to find someone who's into marriage.

I used to know a guy who was a foster kid and all of his siblings were fosters kids too. He told me how much he doesn't want a family or children. He says he will never have children. I can see why he doesn't. He had a very rough childhood and he doesn't want all the responsibility with children. I think that this is the reason why most men or women don't want to get marry or have children. The responsibility is overwhelming in this day and age where cost is high and we don't have much time available for our children.

Source: http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-20040726-000010.html



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