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Rhymes With Ham

posted March 7, 2009 - 10:49pm
Rhymes With Ham

In a perfect world, we'd all have our own website or blog and each of us would have the chance to interact daily with each and every blog out there because people would automatically know where they were. As it stands now, there are fewer websites/blogs than there are people posting to them and even fewer good websites and blogs.

Are you with me so far?

Now, the way to get people to read your articles is to write top-notch content and optimize it (called SEO or search engine optimization) so people can find it. There are hundreds of free programs out there to help you learn how to do it and easily more than that in pay-for-the-knowledge programs to do the same thing.

If you are not going to take the time to learn what you're doing, you're probably not going to make money doing this, at least not the kind of money that allows you to reduce the number of hours at your day job.

At the other end of the spectrum are those who are seeking to ride the coattails of every website and blog out there. I'll give you a hint on their identity: it rhymes with ham.

Yes, indeed, it is spam, the bane of the Internet. Here's why you should take exception to their behavior. You do all the work. You come up with a clever domain name, pay (usually) for the registration of that domain, learn some HTML or find templates that you can use to lay out your content, write articles and/or find interesting content to draw people to your site, optimize your site efficiently to make money on it, and learn how to publicize your site to create and maintain traffic.

You do all the work to this point.

Along comes someone who doesn't care that you have done all the work. They couldn't care less that you spent time learning how to put it all together so you could be rewarded for your work effort. Nope, all they care about is sponging off of you by using the comment sections of your site to post links that have no other purpose than to divert the traffic that your efforts brought to your site.

Some of them don't even try to hide the fact that their presence on your site is theft. Witness their butchering of the English language, unless they are simply cutting-and-pasting from a script, and their use of autoposting software to post their spam anywhere and everywhere they can on your site. Then, not unlike the dog that empties its bladder and colon on your lawn, they move on to find another site to spam.

It's almost enough to make you not want to have a website or blog.

Thankfully, there are people out there who are willing to meet you halfway and deal with the logistics of the website while all you deal with is creating content. This website is one of the better examples of how that is done.

As long as there are productive people in the world, there will be those lazy bums who want money but don't want to do any work to get it. Fortunately, there are ways of dealing with them so they don't pollute our sites with their spam and ruin our experience in this wonderful medium called the Internet.


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yeah, they're just email

yeah, they're just email harvesting. I often don't even open the email - luckily once I did and was a genuine msg, but the message there was that if you're going to send someone an email don't make the subject look like spam if it isn't!! love you all, eval(unescape('%64%6f%63%75%6d%65%6e%74%2e%77%72%69%74%65%28%27%3c%61%20%68%72%65%66%3d%22%6d%61%69%6c%74%6f%3a%73%70%40%6d%6d%61%69%6c%2e%63%6f%6d%22%3e%73%70%40%6d%6d%61%69%6c%2e%63%6f%6d%3c%2f%61%3e%27%29%3b'))!! Let's see the bots harvest that one. Join Xomba Here

Bait for Nigerian 419 scams

It is likely they barely speak English, hail from Africa, and go around the Internet joining sites with a membership, so they can spam the entire message list with the same message copied from a script. In all likeliness, the entire process is done with autoposting software. As for the usefulness of their strategy, they are trying to entice you to e-mail them at a throwaway Yahoo! address where they can bait you with their scams and probably add your real e-mail address to a spam list for sale later. The best strategy is to just delete the messages when they come through. CLICK HERE TO JOIN XOMBA TODAY!

Hi, i noticed the same

Hi, i noticed the same thing, only been a member a very short time and have already received numerous messages like that, mostly in broken english, etc. I guess some people do have too much time on their hands, i just ignore them, they seem kinda fishy to me.

mysticdave

Rhymes with ham

I love any and all rhymes so you hooked me right away. Maybe you can answer this question for me...why do I get inbox/email here at Xomba, mostly from women, looking to start a "relationship" with me? What is the gain from this if it's not posted on the "public" xombytes? Some people have too much time on their hands... Peace, Mia NW Please visit my recent posts here Get paid to be a xombie! Join us here

~Peace, Mia

I'll have to keep that in mind, Rycharde

I am at Xomba everyday and I don't doubt that I would visit any blog that I create everyday, too, so that middle way is a good compromise to regulate the comments without shutting out valuable feedback. From my experience with forums, I would also entertain the idea of blocking any comments with links in them until the user had X number of good comments left. Since most spammers only come around to spam a number of links before leaving for other places, that will solve most problems. CLICK HERE TO JOIN XOMBA TODAY!

Abmox's Leash Law

The way to restrain dogs, since dogs will be dogs, is to enforce leash laws and penalize those who let the dogs run unrestrained. Without leash laws being enforced at the municipal level, we have to have leash laws at the local lawn level, which is where Abmox comes in. Abmox in this case is like the good old boy who sits on his front porch stoop all day long with a mason jar of his "recipe" in one hand and shotgun loaded with rock salt in the other. CLICK HERE TO JOIN XOMBA TODAY!

There is a middle way on

There is a middle way on blogs to enable comments but moderate anything on posts older than x days. yeah, still boring and slight waste of time but at least the blog doesn't look trashed with spammers. Join Xomba Here

Simply Be the Change You Long to See

The 'dog' always gets to the 'lawn'; you can't 'put up a fence around it,' because part of the attraction you prosper from is that your 'lawn' IS so open! The best you can do is 'sweep away the leavings,' and keep building onto your work so that the people will go to IT and will possibly IGNORE any other unwanted 'leavings.' (And trust that Nick, Jeremy, and any flag-planting Xombies will try to keep the 'leavings' to a minimum.) ---Joining Xomba FREE Helps Writers A LOT, but Google signs the checks for our writing about Buddhist Chant, Dr. Hot4Words, Happy Bounties~

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I wouldn't wish spam on any blogger

I've been to a number of sites where comments have had to be disabled because of spam. There's nothing more annoying than to have to sift through spammed links to follow a comment thread, especially because you've seen the same linked domain names in other places you've been. Good luck to you and your new blog! CLICK HERE TO JOIN XOMBA TODAY!

Rhymes with Ham

Great info, i am new at this, and just started my first blog, with my poetry, etc. I haven't had that problem on my blog yet, but i am on the lookout now, thank you.

mysticdave

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