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School Fund raisers exploiting children

posted November 5, 2006 - 1:48am
School Fund raisers exploiting children

I am really upset with the schools. While I do not mind occasionally buying something from kids selling to raise money for a school project. I am appalled at least by some schools here in Washington state and would not be surprised if it is not being done in other schools in other state s as well.

That is using kids to take home catalogs for parents, freinds, relatives and neighbors to view and beg for sales so they can win a junky piece of trash for X number of points they get for each sale they make.

first of all occasionally I don't mind, but this year my grand kids have brought home for the third time. I did buy a couple things I really wanted the first time. Here it is 8 weeks later and still have not got the order I paid for.

They came with another one about a month ago, and told them no I could not afford it. of course they were disappointed and tried to wheedle and beg, "All the other kids in my class relatives are helping them" Etc etc. Which I know is not true completely. My granddaughter again brought something home yesterday once again this time to sell 10 cookies of one kind or another for $15.99. These are regular size cookies. Whoa NO WAY!. Or cookie dough 12 ounces for $18.00. I asked her what was the money for. She said the teacher told the kids it was to help the school buy pencils and desks and classroom supplies.

What bunk and what a lie. I told her sorry but I had made the one purchase I could afford this year already and it had not yet arrived. She cried and said she gets teased when she comes with no sales by other kids. This is plain wrong. While schools might at times need to raise extra funds It is wrong to use kids and pit them against one another for the most sales. It is wrong to tell them it is for school supplies. When they get funds from the government for that.

It hurts kids and it especially hurts kids who are on low income and who have families with low income.

I would rather go to a spagetti feed, or white elephant auction put on by the school, than give some magazine or cookie dough company or card company money so they can make a profit while giving the kids a token of the funds raised or some stupid sponge bob toy.

I hate hurting my grandkids that way, it is not fair to them or any kid and the school officals should be ashamed to use and exploit kids that way. I did not like it when they had my kids doing it.

I did something about it then and went to the school board. I learned a lot of parents did not like it. I got other parents involved and when fund raising came around we had a bake sale, or rummage sale and best of all we had white elephant bingo and potato feed.

The community turned out for the social events, Got something for their money. Built memories and instead of the kids raising $300.00 we raised over $2500.00 3 years in a row and it was to send the kids to an enviromental camp. My kids grew up and when we moved they had the annual event two more times then went back to selling door to door, because no one wanted to help or voleenter anymore.

Back then it was kids selling candy bars or light bulbs and magazines. For prices well above normal. Now it is wrapping paper, cards, and cookies or cookie dough. $14.00 for 10 chocolate chip cookies, and did not include shipping and handling. I can make them for $4.00 myself. Or buy store bought for about $3.50.

I just think it is wrong for schools and these fund raising companies to exploit kids for their own gain and pit the kids against one another for junky prizes.



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It's not the teachers....

I'm a teacher, and it's the school itself that picks a fund raiser, and then the teachers are stuck collecting money, etc. They don't like it any more than you do. Our education system needs to be funded adequately so that we don't have to turn children and parents into salespeople.

School fund raising

I agree. This country should be ashamed of itself with how it funds education. Kids need to be busy learning, not selling, and parents should be assisting in the learning, not the selling. Another pet peeve of mine on this topic is putting children out along busy highways with signs advertising their "free" car washes. Traffic and road rage being what it is today, this practice is just asking for disaster. Shame on us for going along with it, and I commend you for taking action.

competition

Well, shame on any teachers who are doing that. You know, you got me thinking, who tells these teachers that they can, or should, or must, hold these fundraisers? Do you think the school board, or the principal orders them to do it, in order to qualify for certain budget considerations? (Such as, "no field trip this year unless you hold a fundraiser?") You don't have to answer, maybe someone else who reads this and works in the schools can tell me. If I were a teacher, it wouldn't be my bright idea to put the students & families thru this. www.joesnare.com

Thanks Joe

Yes my grandkids know we love them. The school where my granddaughter goes the teacher makes it a competion to see who can get the most sales and tells the other kids to try harder. The peers pick up on this and mock or tease the ones who do not or are not able to generate sales.

Celanith

Hello everyone, stop and set awhile.

I agree

Good post. Girl Scout cookies is one thing -- at least they have a great product. But when it comes to this other stuff, we have pretty much stopped participating. For our daughter's most recent "band candy" sale, we bought 2 boxes (about $4 worth of candy) for $17, for ourselves, and that was it. No more begging to friends, coworkers, and relatives. Come to think of it, what was that money for? The colored T-shirts they wear on concert day? I'll buy the colored T-shirt, just like we buy our own oboe reeds. Fortunately, she has never reported being teased about not selling enough. And if that ever happens... well, she knows who loves her. www.joesnare.com

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