Single Mother’s……

How does it work? As a single divorced father, I’ve seen 2 facets to this.
In one instance I know several single mother’s and would first off like to say that this is a problem. Most father’s don’t show any true concern for their children and are hardly around to help raise young boys into responsible men, or even young girls into respectable classy women. This, my friends, is a true epidemic in the United States. Some of the friends I have that are single women have complaint after complaint about how difficult it really is to raise children on their own. I do feel compassion for them, and most times wish that I could help.

Yet my mind begins to ponder certain things. Such as, “Why are you single again?” and “Is the father really not around, or did you push him off?”

The reason these things come to mind is that I myself am a single father. I make every effort in my being to be a part of my son and daughters lives. The problem is their mother WONT LET ME. She pushes me off from more time with them. The children and I spend quality time with each other when we’re together. They help me record my music. We Bible study together, they look forward to going to church every weekend they’re with me, etc…

Both children have expressed on their own free will that they WANT more time with me. Unfortunately mommy says “No”. Why? I’ll tell you why. She knows that it will put a dent in her income. She’s in no way concerned about the needs of a child. The necessity a solid Father figure is in a child’s life. NO. She’s concerned about the chips. Money. Dinero. It frustrates me to the last drop of my energy. I’ve brought it to the court’s attention and they evil eye me while she gives her Crocodile tears. What can I do? I hire a lawyer, the courts still shun me. I have no way out. I’ve exhausted every last drop of my finances to get just one more weekend a month with them, and I am completely shut down. Like a computer virus keeps your computer from booting up.

So, single mothers…. If you have a baby’s daddy that is making an effort to be a part of the child’s life… give him the opportunity. You owe it to your kids.

Single Fathers….. If you’re not making an attempt to be a part of your childrens lives, you deserve to be hounded by the DA. Be a responsible man.

Single mother’s again…. If you’re shoving your Baby’s Daddy away cuz you want more chips, or have a grudge against him…. You DON’T deserve to raise your child.

It’s not about you… It’s not about him… It’s about raising an innocent child into a “Respectable Adult” with Morals, Responsibility, Character, and Class….

Chief