I want every single woman in the world to please read this article, it could SAVE YOUR LIFE! In this article, you will find helpful information on dating safely without giving up information about yourself that could be risking your life. Danger doesn’t always look like danger, sometimes it looks like a potential relationship, so be aware of what is out there. Rape and murder could happen to you.
I have to write to all the single woman out there that are putting there lives at risk every single day. There are evil men out there with bad intentions that look like completely normal, hot, sexy, suave guys. Serial killers don’t look like serial killers. They look like every body else and you need to be aware of the danger you put yourself in every time you give out personal information. These guys will trick you into telling them this information. They will try to make you feel sorry for being rude so that you tell them what they want to know. Don’t feel sorry for them, you are not being rude, you are protecting your life. And you don’t even have to be rude, you can be sexy. These guys could have bad intentions so get to know somebody safely before you tell them anything personal that could be life threatening.
For example, if a guy is talking to you in a club and says “You are so sexy girl. You look so young, how old are you? You aren’t 21, you must be underage, you are way to hot to be 21 or older. Girl, let me see your ID.” Do you realize that by showing this guy your ID, you are giving him your home address.? He could come to your house and do whatever he wants to you. He might ask you where you work, or what time you get off. He might say he has something in his car he wants you to see. Maybe some free designer clothes or he knows an agent he wants to take you to meet right away. You are putting yourself in so much danger by going anywhere with someone you don’t even know. He might want to get you a drink, he might spill it on purpose so that he can go get you a new one and poison you. Don’t ever take a drink from anyone but a bartender, and don’t ever take your eyes off of your drink. If you take your eyes off your drink for one second, throw it away. I know those drinks are expensive, but it is not worth your life!
These guys will ask you so many questions about yourself, and you don’t have to be rude to them. You might feel like you don’t want to be rude to someone because that’s not you, but all you have to do is be mysterious and that will make you seem even more sexy to a guy that is truly interested. For example, if he says that he wants to see your ID, you could just say “Show me yours and I will show you mine.” or “I am drinking, so you know I must be twenty one. I don‘t want you to see my license picture, it looks terrible.” If he wants to get you a drink, you can just offer to go and get it, or even if he does get you a drink, you don’t have to drink it. You can just politely go to the bathroom and get a new drink on your way back. Just say you changed your mind and wanted something else than what he got you. If he asks where you work, just give a vague answer. Tell him what field your in and change the subject. Act like you didn’t even hear him, after all, its loud in the club. And if he wants you to go anywhere with him, you can just politely ask for his phone number, and tell him you have other plans for the evening. Tell him maybe another time if your interested in him. Always bring a girlfriend out with you and have a buddy system.
We all want to have a good time, so don’t be afraid to. Just do it smart and do it safe. Don’t volunteer information about yourself. Protect yourself from any type of potential danger because you never know. These guys look normal, they could even look hot. And they could be dangerous. And if they are not dangerous, than all the suggestions I have made will still allow you to meet him again in public, with a friend and get to know him a little bit better before you let him into your life. Trust your intuition.