I have mentioned this in a previous post but it's worth repeating: Sex is one of a very few times when YOU get to be in control almost completely.

Do not let sex get in the way. As a guy you will fail at this, but you must try. I realize it’s the most perfect drug out there. And as a guy, there is almost no such thing as bad sex. Understand however, that it can/does confuse and complicate delicate situations. I’m not saying to limit yourself in any way. I’m really referring to those times when you know you need to have a serious conversation about something. DO NOT GET DISTRACTED. No matter what happens or else you will pay for it later. And yes, she can be very distracting. They know this. You’ll know the difference because if they want to talk, she won’t be distracting at all. But if you want to talk, and she has no interest, then it gets turned up a notch. Now if she has a mutual interest on the topic then you’re fine.

This rule applies to angry or make-up sex also. DON’T start a fight just to get her all botherd and lathered up. Overuse of such power is damaging in the long run.

It's not all bad however guys. After all, it is sex we're talking about here right? Let her take control every once in a while. You will most likely be pleasently surprised.