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Survive the City - preparing for NYC

posted November 18, 2006 - 3:48pm
Survive the City - preparing for NYC

Well folks, today marks the first day in the 30 ( + or - 1) day countdown to my NYC move. Last night I didn't get much sleep. Sure you might blame that on the fact that Kev and I stayed up until 4am (NYC time - I use that because it sounds much more tiring than 1am LA time) chatting about work and things. However, even after we got off the phone so the poor boy could get some sleep before his meetings tomorrow, I stayed awake thinking about everything that I have to do to prepare myself for this move. Seriously, just thinking about packing all my underwear in a small enough box had me on edge. How am I gonna get all this stuff in my car!?

Growing up I was never really one to freak out when it came to prioritizing or multitasking. I remember one particular occasion when I came home from school with a big to-do list. I was running for class Vice President (5th grade people, don't worry too much) with my classmate Mark Harrel, and I was swamped with tasks and began to freak out. My mother calmed me and just said, "One step at a time. You'll get through it." I still use this mantra today and I do my best to just tackle one thing at a time and move forward. Of course, I also inherited her ADD so I tackle a few things at a time.

Anyway, I remember coming home during high school and working on big projects or studying for a huge test. A few times I'd be up until 2-3am ( a late time for someone who tried to get to bed by 8:30 - I know I was a dork - don't remind me). Mom would come in to the kitchen and I'd be quietly working. "What are you doing up?" she'd ask. "Just taking it one step at a time."

Anyway, one step at a time for this New York move. I mean come on, it's not really that big of a deal. But it would be fun to document and perhaps get my mind off of the overall craziness that is my huge to-do-list. I won't bog you down too much with the in's and out's of work at iFly but I'm going to try to write each day for the next month.

So let's start with yesterday. Yesterday I worked on the family video I've been producing. I'm compiling a bunch of home videos as a gift for my family. I'm having the best time going through all the old footage and watching my brother and I progress through our childhood. The greatest moment from last night had to be the clip from Easter. I was a pretty boring child. I didn't react very much to surprises or get very excited at much at all - something I've tried to work on as I get older. However, this particular Easter I flipped out at the sight of a tiny white stuffed rabbit hiding in my closet. I can't tell you why something so simple had me jumping for joy as if Bill Gates himself came over to hand me a 10 million dollar check, but it did. My brother, however, was not so happy as he quickly convinced himself that I had received a gift, but the Easter Bunny had managed to forget about him. He began to cry as I lectured, "Now Michael, does it make any sense that the Easter Bunny would bring me something and not you? NO! Now start using your head and look for yours!" I clearly tried to give him as many hints as I could that the darn thing was inside the other closet, but somehow he didn't seem to catch on. Eventually he opened the adjacent closet and found a stuffed Nija Turtle awaiting his arrival. Being typical Michael he then completely outshined my excited moment buy spinning circles on the ground and screaming "Oh thank god... ...oh thank god...the Easter Bunny does love me...oh thank god!!" Thats my brother :)

Tomorrow I'll fill you in on the experience of babysitting for complete strangers tonight - my attempt to make as much extra cash before heading to the money pit that is the big apple, plus you may hear my rants and raves about the six, yes six, people that are currently living in my apartment - yup, another money saving attempt on our part. Yikes.



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No, I don't presume you're

No, I don't presume you're naive or brainwarped. it's just hard to get a real picture of a place from television or any other media. Your post gave me chance to climb back on the soapbox and preach. If you're from L.A. though, I guess I'm preaching to the choir. Tell you what - when you get here, I'll have my agent talk to your agent. Maybe we can do lunch and talk about the next project.

Good luck,

though I don't think you'll really need it... if you've lived in L.A. you're already used to a big city that has a lot of hype and myth surrounding it. NY is definitely an exhilarating place. My advice would be don't get so caught up in trying to suceed and earn a living that you neglect having fun and allowing yourself downtime to get away from the busy-ness and take in the many fun things the city has to offer. I've worked in marketing most of my career; my first job out of school was in an ad agency. It's a trip. PM me if you have any questions. Welcome and best of luck!

TheW - Thanks so much for

TheW - Thanks so much for responding - I love commentary on my pieces b/c it gets conversation going! I wanted to respond I'm not sure from your posting what you hope/fear/anticipate about NYC, so I'll make some presumptions. I'm a lifelong New Yorker who might be able to give some useful advice. As far as my hopes and fears, I'm really excited. I've always wanted to live in NYC. I grew up in the south, but my family is from NJ and NYC has kinda always been in my blood. Even my stepfather said about moving me into the city, "It's about time we made you a New Yorker, you've been one all your life." - Don't believe 90% of what you see on tv about NYC. Most of the city is not Manhattan, which is the smallest borough in size and second smallest in population. - Don't belive 90% of what you see on TV period. I work in media/film/tv, etc and the idiots that run the place and make the "facts" we watch are no smarter, more educated, etc than the rest of the world. In fact sometimes they're less. At one particular job I had to hire new personel and made a comment to a high-ranking coworker that I wanted someone college educated. "Why? I'm not" was his response. -Most New Yorkers aren't 30 year-old singles who go clubbing every night to snort coke and get laid. - Didn't think so -they're stockbrokers, advertising exes, or aspiring book publishers... -Most New Yorkers aren't stockbrokers, advertising execs or aspiring book publishers. - ooops - he he - just kidding. Well I'm in advertising, my friends are stockbrokers, and clearly I'm a writer. But in all seriousness, you can't blanket any particular location. So I agree. -You're not sophisticated if you limit yourself to restaurants with high ratings from Zagat, Michelin or New York Magazine. You're a tourist or millionaire. - You're right. Zagat is a bunch of crap. I'm from LA (currently) and everything is Zagat rated - whatever. I think you're a New Yorker if you experience the little mom and pop places, the hole-in-the-walls, etc, etc -In fact, most New Yorkers don't look at New York Magazine to tell them what they like. They use their previous experiences, word of mouth, etc. like everybody else. _ Yup -You won't have a view from every part of the city of the Brooklyn Bridge and downtown Manhattan skyline. - yeah but so far so good. Our apartment is on the park (but our view is of a courtyard where if I'm lucky I can see a strip of sky while I lie in bed. The BF's office has an awesome view of the Empire State Building and a few other things...anyway, I get it. -Most New Yorkers are average people living average lives. They're not townhouse-dwelling corporate powerbrokers or the previously mentioned 30 year-old singles. People living in the other boroughs and suburbs aren't all beer guzzling slobs who come home, watch tv sports all day and ignore their wives unless they get horny. - I should hope so. -Most native or long-time New Yorkers, including those born and raised in Manhattan, have nothing in common with their television counterparts. - You're probably right, but it'd be nice if they'd aspire to be educated, outgoing, cultured, etc like their television counterparts. This may or may not be what you're hoping for, but it's closer to the truth than the cartoon NYC in the media. Either way, I hope it works out for you. - I hope you don't think I'm brainwarped into thinking I'm moving to some "Sex in the City" lifestyle. I may be young, but I'm not naive.

I'm not sure from your

I'm not sure from your posting what you hope/fear/anticipate about NYC, so I'll make some presumptions. I'm a lifelong New Yorker who might be able to give some useful advice. - Don't believe 90% of what you see on tv about NYC. Most of the city is not Manhattan, which is the smallest borough in size and second smallest in population. -Most New Yorkers aren't 30 year-old singles who go clubbing every night to snort coke and get laid. -Most New Yorkers aren't stockbrokers, advertising execs or aspiring book publishers. -You're not sophisticated if you limit yourself to restaurants with high ratings from Zagat, Michelin or New York Magazine. You're a tourist or millionaire. -In fact, most New Yorkers don't look at New York Magazine to tell them what they like. They use their previous experiences, word of mouth, etc. like everybody else. -You won't have a view from every part of the city of the Brooklyn Bridge and downtown Manhattan skyline. -Most New Yorkers are average people living average lives. They're not townhouse-dwelling corporate powerbrokers or the previously mentioned 30 year-old singles. People living in the other boroughs and suburbs aren't all beer guzzling slobs who come home, watch tv sports all day and ignore their wives unless they get horny. -Most native or long-time New Yorkers, including those born and raised in Manhattan, have nothing in common with their television counterparts. This may or may not be what you're hoping for, but it's closer to the truth than the cartoon NYC in the media. Either way, I hope it works out for you.

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