The lie called Domestic Violence

Now let me start by saying I do believe there is a problem in America with men beating women, and it disgusts me. I however am not talking about that, but am talking about how Women are able to call up and make up a story about any man they dislike and scream domestic violence. For the most part Domestic Violence is not a felony except in real brutal cases, however if convicted of Domestic Violence your life and Reputation will permanently be ruined. You no longer will be able to vote, own fire arms, Get a well paying job, or if you are renting you will no longer be able to live in a nice apt in a nice neighborhood. In most states if police are called in a potential domestic violence situation the law states someone has to go to jail. 95% of the time this is the man because it is normally the women who called even if she was the one doing the beating. A no contact order will automatically be placed on the man, and the courts do not mess around with people who break a no contact order it is serious jail time. I've met people who went to prison for 5 years because there women came over to there house and would not leave when there was a no contact order in effect. In a court of law the prosecuter has to prove beyond reasonable doubt a crime was committed not with domestic violence. It comes down to who tells a better story. now most women know how to cry on command, and just plain look adorable. When this is the case the man has no chance. Let me tell you my story. My wife and I had split up, but we have two children so we had to spend alot of time together. My ex liked to lead me on have me stay the night walk around naked ect, ect. Now I did not get married just to have it end in divorce so I wanted to try and work things out. We came to an agreement that if either one of us were gonna hook up with someone else we would give the other the courtesy to tell them. I told her you do not have to tell me any details just say the words "I'm moving on now." thats it. Now my ex would always go out drinking and partying and leave me to watch the children which I was ok with, but she started to act differently around me, real secretive. I knew she had hooked up, but when I asked her if she was moving on she would bite my head off. Eventually it got to the point where I went to her and said that I was gonna move on, but she said, "No don't." So a couple days later I was working on the pc I had let her borrow when we split up because hers was down. I stumbled upon a document in word while copying all my files to a flash drive that she had written to some man. The letter went on to talk about how they slept together and so on and so on. I already knew so wasn't to surprised, and when I confronted her about it all I said was, "you always call me a compulsive lier, but I'd rather be a compulsive lier than a hypocritical lier anyday." I said it calmly and with no anger, I then walked out. We didn't talk for a few weeks then she called me and said we needed to talk. She picked me up and we went to her house. I put my daughter into bed and then my son. While putting my son to bed I fell asleep. She walked into the bedroom and said I should come and sleep with her. I was pretty sick of her trying to lead me on so I kinda lost my anger and said to her that I was sick of her shit and I called her a slut. Then I walked out without ever touching her or even really raising my voice. This made her very angry because she wanted a real reaction from me not what she was getting. The thing is I have been through enough in my life that nothing anyone does really surprises me, lets just say I can go through the steps of a relaitionship with people, but I really don't have any emotions left, I really just don't care, except about my children. About a month later I was at the court house looking into divorce and found out that I had an arraignment that morning. I raised over to the court house it was at and found out that my ex had accused me of trying to force myself on her. She did this because she needed a reason to have a no contact order put on me so I could not see our children which is the only way she knew of hurting me. There was zero evidence in fact the time frame she said it happened at I was at my friends, and he verified this. She never called 911 in fact she didnt call the police untill she found out she couldn't serve me with a restraining order for the children just because she wanted too. I talked to a public deffender and after my public deffender talked to my ex he came back into the room I was in and said, "Wow she is very pretty, and she knows how to cry." "You are going to lose." I was amazed this man had said this so I went and hired a high priced attorney. I was pretty certain that because there was zero evidence that it would eventually be dropped, but this never happened. I talked to a bunch of people who had been through the same thing and realized that I had a good chance to go to jail and ruin my life. Eventually it came to trial time and I was pretty scared. Family courts had told me I had to do domestic violence classes in order to see my children so I had my attorney tell the prosecuter that I would do the classes if after I'm done the charges get dropped. They excepted these terms and I avoided jail time and a Domestic violence conviction permanently on my record. People Listen if A women ever threatens to call the police on you, run, don't argue don't do anything run. It is easier to beat a murder rap than to win in a domestic violence case. For some strange reason the courts do not follow the rules of law when it is a Domestic violence case. Look at the duke lacross case, that women is obviously lying. All the evidence supports this, yet they are still trying to convict those boys. This is happening everywhere in the United States, and for some reason no one is doing anything about it. It is wrong and Prosecuters and women who make up these lies need to be punished severely. When I am done with my probation for my case in June I will write to every news paper, television, and radio station who will listen. I will name the public deffenders, the prosecuters and the judges who had anything to do with my case. I have already contacted attorneys about what kind of trouble I will get into if I hire a women and a man and document in full how Domestic Violence in america is a lie. I found out it is only a misdameaner, so every one wait and you will see the fire works when I fully document how a women can make up a story, and with no evidence destroy a mans life. I will pay both parties and secretely record and doccument the whole case, and I will have my revenge on the King County district court in Kent, washington.