The loneliest place on Earth


The loneliest place on Earth

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You share the world with six billion other people. As crowded as that sounds, there are any number of places where you can feel as alone as though you just landed on the moon. Antarctica is as large as the United States but except for a few locations at the south pole and the coast, you could spend a lifetime if you had supplies and not see a trace of humanity.

There are vast areas of desert, mountain, boreal and tropical forests around the globe where if you choose, you can be totally alone. You will not see, hear, or smell anything that vaguely reminds you of civilization.

These are places to be alone. But if you want lonely, there is no better place than Midtown Manhattan. From Monday through Friday, you can join the sea of humanity that is there for one reason only: to do what has to be done to earn a paycheck and leave. Anything else is incidental. Millions of people whose only reason for walking the streets is to get from point A to point B, with as little spontaneous human interaction as possible.

Like them, when you get to point B you'll join up with others who are working with you to collect paychecks. If you want that check every other week, you'd better join in the make-believe teamwork and comraderie. You do this every day, pretending with everybody else that you live for it. Like everybody else, you do this knowing that if you come to an untimely end, the biggest concern within a week will be filling your empty cubicle with another warm body.

As you sit through meetings and go to required training, you also know that if profits decline, you'll be booted out the door and and forgotten before they unplug your desktop computer which after all, can be used by the next warm body.

If you take a walk at lunch, you might see some streets where people actually live. Mothers are walking with kids, old men sit on stoops watching whoever comes their way. They know each other, know the storeowner on the corner. You though, are nothing more than a shadow. You're a passerby without any ties. At the end of your hour, you go back into your office and perform for your paycheck, waiting for the end of the day so you can resume your life as a human being.

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Celanith's picture

How sad to feel so alone

Wow this person needs some sort of life. Sounds like they are just existing and living to make money. He/she should stop and say hello to some of the old men or even some of the mother's with kids. Even if it is "Nice Day" or "Sure is cold out, Christmas will be here soon" Some kind of opening statement that might give a response back and maybe even lead to more meaningful conversation.

Then the lonliness will soon go away as you walk the streets, the old men and mother's with kids will get to know you and eventually greet you by name. Ask how you are. But don't leave it there, share some thought, ideas, dreams and pretty soon you shall no longer feel or be lonely.

LadyPeninhand's picture

Lonely Wonderer?

I might have missed something in here, but I don't think I did. I didn't get the impression the author was talking about his own life or experiences so much as he was just commenting on his observations about other people and how disconnected, maybe, that we've all become from one another. It's all so true...and that connection is definitely missing, more and more every day.

Well written...

Dragonfly's picture

Misery in Manhattan

Nice job Wonderer.

Your words paint a vivid picture for us of how truly empty and bleak that place must feel even amidst a sea of people.

Dragonfly
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Les Porter's picture

I like the emptiness, more than the empty behaviors of crowds

I do not agree much with the opinions of the women here, but I am a guy, and some times lonliness I cherish. Other times?
I guess I should write the general lonely things and look for sympathy? Not that that is what happens here. Two outa three probably aren't swayed by words either! I know about personal space. I know about words. I liked the posting!

TheWonderer's picture

I would say that at times

I would say that at times Les, I enjoy solitude. It gives a chance to relax and look at the world around you. Loneliness though, is something that I never look forward to. From my perspective, loneliness serves the opposite purpose of solitude. You might say it's an involuntary solitude when what you want or need to recharge yourself is companionship. Thanks for your take on the posting.

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