The Loneliness

Loneliness, lonesome and lonely are sad or melancholic words and we feel sympathy with persons who are in that position. Those feelings happen to all persons, male or female, at every age. We don’t know how long they will stay with us. They happen to us for a short while or attach themselves to us for longer. And is there any way for us to resolve them...

Some persons have these feelings from childhood; they don’t know when it became attached to their mind. It’s anyone’s fault. It might be an error of the way the parents brought them up which they don’t intend. The parents might have had a quarrel, lacked harmony or abandoned their children. They didn’t have too much time to care for the children because they had to earn a living or because of their great business. The time to meet parents is only a time to get some money which the parents left on the table or maybe only short handwritten notes. Sometimes, when one is disappointed from LOVE, it makes one feel despair, defeat?discouragement? and unhappiness. Then they look for something else to do in order to compensate for the lack of love or the loneliness.

Some try in a good way; they put all their energy into duty and win. They have high rank and position. They have many nice friends and much money too. Those things can get rid of “THE SHADOW” from the deep heart. Certainly, they can live a happy life but they still search or pray? for loveliness and a warm heart.

Some try in a good way but they also rely on drugs or maybe alcohol and cigarettes. They do that in spite of knowing that it’s not good and can harm them and persons around them. We sometimes feel empathy with them, especially persons who are very knowledgeable and capable, and they have many nice things but they can’t avoid these foolish things. They let their life continue freely or let it go through what we‘d call fate or destiny. They can work well but they have those awful things as along with the nice friends and loneliness inside their mind.

None can correct those awful things for them except themselves. The most important thing is their ‘MIND’. They should have the direct intention to correct their mistakes, or to practice, regain awareness, calm down both mind and body, and withdraw? to find peace. They will have religions precepts, concentration and wisdom. In the end they will have the ‘WISDOM’, and they will learn how to give will power to both to themselves and the others so that they can abolish all wasteful things at last.

One of the most significant things is the will power of the persons around them especially the nearby persons who can fulfill them by giving them loveliness, understanding and mercy from a true and pure heart without asking for any rewards.

No one is perfect. Everyone has good things and bad things, mixed in oneself. If we know, that we have flaws and that we can accept our faults unconditionally, then we are ready to correct. That is the way of very successful persons. That is someone we call “A WINNER”. He not only wins over himself but he wins over the others also and he will not be lonely too much any longer.