I never truly understood how greatly staisfying it can be, I never thought one could get such satisfaction with there lover through such means, but let me tell you, YOU can!
Not only can you, but you SHOULD.
Why? because this form of sexually connecting with your lover forces you to verbalize your fantasies, wants and desires, forces you to speak and listen, forces you two engage in a give and take that can aid in so much more of your relationship. By removing the physical, you are left with the mental, this is the key to a sexually stimulaiting and satisfying relationship with your lover. As women really need it being a mental process, right from the start but are never really willing to commit to this, or admit to this, and men have so much bottled up in there heads about what they want if they actually released in in speech to there lover while pleasing themselves you can only imagine his gratitude during and after the act, the devotion to the relatioship will only escalate.
So how do we do it? where do we start?
I recommend doing this even if you live together, this will force as I said a different part of the brain to work for sex, it will open up a new facet of your relationship and allow you to feel more confident in one another and you will feel great after its done.
So first you usually need a leader in the dialogue, which one of you is more usually the agressor in bed, being the dialigue with what you would want to do to the person if they weer right there. Go slowly.
For example: You come home from work, I am waiting for you in lingerie, I walk up to you at the door, greet you, and I take your hand, lead you to the sofa, sit you down, and slowly being to dance for you....
etc....go slow, enjoy it, play with it, and allow yourselves to be free in whatever world you create that day, you can do things that you may not do in real life, because its the mind, allow your partner to be free to express themselves.
Phone sex is a SAVIOUR to anyone in a long distance relationship or for people who are seperated frequently by business trips, please master this, not just for the other or for the relationship, but for your own enjoyment. Despite your inhibitions it may turn out to be something you grow to enjoy and benefits will surely show, and trust me ladies he will be very very grateful!!