micheleg4153

Hi Micheleg4153 I need advice............Please help 

I have a guy friend that I want a relationship with that I have been knowing for 4 months. He seemed cool until we start to have sex then he started to act different. He doesn't call or text like he used too now it's every 7 or more days when it usedto be every 2 days. I found myself having to always ask him to spend time more with me other than sex or him coming to have dinner with me and my family. He said he cares about me and thinks i'm sexy but who knows. He said he would communicate better and we would do more things together but it's not happening. I'm 26 and he is 30. I have been really a great female friend to him by being supportive sending cards from time to time. He is in school but unemployed-(due to him getting in trouble as a teenager that left it hard for him to get a job) so I have been directing him to job fairs but it doesn't seem to be enough.i'm a attractive, school teacher that is a grad school as well. So it's like I can't change him. I have been getting advice from other members on here.One member saidthat maybe Iam too available for him. She said that I should not return any calls/texts back for 7 or more days. What do you think about my situation?