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What Exactly Is Indian Morality? Do we really need moral policing?

posted February 1, 2009 - 12:42am
What Exactly Is Indian Morality? Do we really need moral policing?

Since the terror attacks happened in Mumbai in November last year, there has been a lot of hue and cry and mass hysteria of different shades in the political circles of India.

It all started with politicians of all parties trying to score a brownie point with the voters in their respective constituencies making the appropriate (and some not so appropriate) noises. But slowly and surely the focus of the political parties has shifted from the "patriotic" fervor to more local agendas. Of course, the elections are near and so the race to keep their seats and or make new alliances have grabbed the attention of all the politicians.

The last few months saw some great big "issues" breaking out on the news channels, with equally scandalous value. Staring with the corporate IT company Satyam fraud coming to light and the possibility of political parties having a hand in it, followed by other issues like the Mangalore incident where some women were molested by "self proclaimed" keepers of Indian morality - The Sri Ram Sena. In the meantime, the MNS workers also continued with their hooliganism in Mumbai by attacking a five star hotel and damaging their property, and the Rajasthan chief minister Mr. Gehlot making bold statements about "pub culture" and "mall culture" which according to him is not Indian culture.

The news channels somehow managed to get an interview with the president of the Sri Ram Sena Mr. Muthalik who at first denied all involvement of his men in the incident and then just minutes later said that it was an action taken to teach the women a lesson? Later on the news channels even managed to bring out an old tape of his speech that he apparently gave soon after the Malegaon blasts in which he is seen to be praising Sadhvi Pragya, the other accused in the crime. SHOCKING! Now politicians are openly giving speeches about what they have done or make bold statements that are detrimental to the interest of the country and even getting away with it. Is this what "democracy"is all about?

Now, seeing all these developments is a big disappointment and also is scary to the future of India. Do we really need moral policing in India? Who are these self proclaimed groups to decide what constitutes Indian culture and what doesn't? Their main contention is that women are visiting pubs in the company of male friends and taking liquor and drugs, and roaming around in malls holding hands! I mean, hey, wake up guys which era do you live in? Women have come a long way in India through a long struggle to achieve the kind of independence that they now enjoy. So, is this just a way of trying to suppress the women and pushing them right back to their homes all over again?

What exactly is Indian culture? Nobody objected to these pubs or liquor shops as long as men were their only patrons, and it is these very men who were creating and being a nuisance to the society and a threat to their women. Is it OK for the men to ill treat their women, rape, molest and abuse them as they wish? If you see the Bollywood movies of the last decade or so, the roles of the women have been deteriorated to just "ïtem girls" with them having to wear revealing clothes and dance to tunes of "item songs"that are nothing but modernized version of the earlier "cabarets". Is this Indian Culture?

Nowadays, all the women who aspire to enter the film industry have to first become "item girls". Hey, who wants to see them "acting"? It is the men who are at present dominating the Indian film industry, not that they are all very good "actors" themselves. The politicians are going overboard with everything this year and breaking all boundaries of what is acceptable.

Today I saw an advertisement in the newspaper by the ruling Congress party which urges everyone to join hands to stop child labor in India, specially in Dhabas and other such places where they are employed. Now, I am not advocating that it is OK for a child to work. No, ideally, NO child should be in such a situation where he/she is forced to work and lose out on their childhood. But, is it fair to stop those very poor children from working who REALLY need the money to sustain themselves and their families? Not that they are earning enough. But, every penny counts. What is the government doing to make sure that every child is fed and clothed and educated properly? On the other hand, the kids (rich background or middle class) are allowed to work in TV, Films, advertisemsnts and earn much more than these other poor children who are probably being exploited. If there is a law that stops kids from working, then stop ALL the kids, rich or poor!

India cannot progress with such moral policing going on. Women need to be encouraged to stand on their own feet and not suppressed again. Instead the government should ban all these (Saas Bahu) soap operas that are being shown on TV on all channels that are deteriorating to women and their status.

I am afraid that the politicians are trying to get the "Taliban" regime into India in the pretext of religion, Hindu and Muslim! It is shocking and NOT ACCEPTABLE to the women of India. Women of India need to unite and raise their voice against this injustice and not let the politicians get an upper hand....

JAI HIND!



Comments

Morality and Indian Culture - See "Slumdog Millionaire"

I just saw the movie "Slumdog Millionaire" yesterday. The movie has depicted the true India as it is. That's how things work in India, and majority of the population is under the poverty line, forced to live in slums as they cannot afford a better accommodation. Specially in Mumbai, as people immigrate from other states to find work in Mumbai and land up in the slums...These people have to fend for themselves and so the rule of the jungle applies. Where is the question of "Morality" here? India has no moral values. At least the very rich people (20% population) and the very poor people (60% population) don't have any moral values to uphold. So it is only the middle class (20%) who are forced to keep the moral values! More so for the women of that class. The men in India are slowly pushing the women into the flesh trade and treating them as nothing but sex objects, in every sphere of life! At least that's what is being projected by the media...So, maybe it is the media who is responsible for this attitude..! Thanks Keeka for your comment.

"Saving" Indian CUltue

Surely to attack a lady out of a pub is no way to get a message across & this is no way reflective of Indian Culture. Agree with the points you make, Rawnak. Sadly these kind of incidents have become regular events in the recent past. From the way these incidents are spaced out and done, I think it is mostly done to garner media attention and limelight. Here is the Shocking Video of the Mangalore Pub Attack. You feel shocked and ashamed to see such a thing happen in the name of "saving the Indian Culture" Join Xomba Here. Have Your Say & Money

Extremism

of any kind is not tolerable and that is what the Sri Ram Sena is continuing to do in Mangalore post the attacks on the women at the pub recently. It is quite obvious that nobody came forward to file a complaint as a witness to the event as they must have been intimidated in some form. The Sri Ram Sena has issued a notice to all the women in Mangalore to avoid coming out in Tight pants or jeans and "skimpy" clothes as they would be attacked...Not only that, they are also holding a meeting to plan the steps that they will take to ensure that the youth do not celebrate "Valentines Day" as its against Indian culture according to them! Is this how the Central government and state government control things??? Are we all guinea pigs in the hands of the politicians? Isn't this akin to "terrorism"! Why aren't they being arrested and thrown in jail under the "TADA" act? Looks like "Politicians RAAJ" now...!

Child Labor

I agree L.Wagen, a country is healthier with the Children not working. If the alternative to working is more poverty, more exploitation by making children working under worse hidden conditions...I dont know. In a country like India where there are child beggars on every street, archaic child labor laws just wont work. I wish children don't work, but its better they do legally (with some conditions) then beg or get sold off or pushed into prostitution. At XOMBA, Write & Make Money! Buy Books Online At Great Prices

Moral Policing

Fighting these issues is like banging one's head against a brick wall. Moral policing starts right from home where a girl is called a "good" girl if she listens to everyone, dresses as parents wishes, marries according to parents wishes. And the TV shows you mention just reinforce those absurd concepts. What I dont understand is why can't people who give such speeches be arrested? I mean, is inciting to "shame women and teach them a lesson" in public any less of a crime then inciting to harm people of other religion. Thats why I am so wary of BJP - they have tied themselves with all these extreme right wingers who kills christians in Orissa, Muslims in Gujrat and "show" the women their place everywhere. The Congress is spineless and the rest like RJD, JMM, etc are so corrupt, they will sell their mothers to make some extra money. At XOMBA, Write & Make Money! Buy Video Games Online

@ L Wagen - Re: Child Labour Laws

"Child labor in India is a human right issue for the whole world. It is a serious and extensive problem, with many children under the age of fourteen working in carpet making factories, glass blowing units and making fireworks with bare little hands. According to the statistics given by Indian government there are 20 million child laborers in the country, while other agencies claim that it is 50 million." http://www.childlabor.in/child-labour-in-india.htm As you can see in the above statement, Indian Government has probably downplayed the numbers where the problem of Child Labour is concerned and to add to it is the factor of poverty in India causing almost "half" of the children in India to be malnourished or starving. Read this : "Why is it that with 60 million tonnes of grain in surplus of the buffer stock, India still has hunger on this scale? Why are half of India's children malnourished? Poverty Line Excludes Many Hungry Persons The original standard for the definition of the poor was thrice the food expenditure as it was shown that poor families spend 1/3 of their expenditure on food. Any household that spends more than 1/3 of its income on food is considered poor in the United States and eligible for food stamps. If this standard is used in India 95% of all households would be considered poor. If one uses the China standard of food share of 60%, then 80% of the rural population and 60% of the urban population would be poor. Thus in India, the top 20% of the population can be excluded from systems of food security." http://www.indiatogether.org/combatlaw/issue3/starve.htm And Read this too: http://www.placesofhope.com/india.aspx This article has brilliantly brought out all the rot in our administration system that has been slowly spreading in our country and is the major cause for the poverty and hunger in India. However, I still agree with what you say about the child labor law and the good it could do to make the country stronger. IF and ONLY IF the Government really follows up on it stringently and without allowing it to be misused here and there. But, as the article above has pointed out, this would entail that the government also follow up stringently on all the other facilities that would provide for the poor people and eradicate poverty to some extent at least!

@Sanjay

Thanks for your comment.

Child Labor Laws

There was a time in US history when children were allowed to work, and they still can under the circumstances listed above on a family farm, in the entertainment industry, etc. but these jobs also face legal restrictions. Time has to be made for school, etc. On the whole, it took time for the transition in the US from a child labor society to adult labor, and still some businesses are busted for breaking child labor laws. On the whole, I believe our country is stronger, and more economically viable with small children not working. They are allowed to work at age 16, with limits set for school nights, and local curfews. With children not working the wages had to rise, and more adults were put to work raising the family income levels. More children attended public school, and education levels also rose. Don't worry about this change. It's time, and in the long run your country (India) will be all the stronger for it.

To the Point

SK Rawanak,indeed moral policing is very harmful for the growth of women in India.They are still used a s a commodity though in the recent times they have progressed by leaps and bounds.The soap operas revolving around women do not have a modern orientation,instead they are just used as a product for a certain segment which relishes in watching the almost endless list of episodes.The politicians have double standards.The common man mentality is still dominated by prejudices against women.For my posts visit www.xomba.com/user/sanjay

SK

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