What makes love end?
posted August 31, 2009 - 1:38am
Nothing in this world is permanent except change. Even feelings called love can come to an end. When love end, it does not mean the end of a relationship. For there are relationships that continue to exist even if there is no love involve between two parties.
But what makes love end? The following are factors that can cause love to end:
Loss of communication.
There is a saying that absence can makes love grow however too much absence can also make love go. Love requires constant communication just like a plant that needs continuous water and sunlight. Knowing each others’ current situation can relieve whatever worries or doubts that may arise in one's mind and heart. Loss of communication can also be a sign of loss of concern in each others' welfare.
Loss of attraction.
Love starts from attraction on physical, mental or character of the person. That simple attraction can possibly grow as you continue loving the person. However, disappointments can distract attraction and if it continues, can totally diminish the feeling. How can you continue loving that person if there is no attraction at all?
Loss of trust.
You cannot love the person you cannot trust. For trust is an act of believing and acknowledging what the person say and do. Resisting to accept and believe any words or statement coming from that person is a manifestation of defying his real intentions towards you. Doubting his purpose means refusing to accept him, therefore there is no love.
Loss of respect.
Respect is always associated with love. It is an act of being polite and treats the person on a right manner. When you love a person, you will do everything that will please him and avoid making him disappointed. You will honor his words and agree with his decisions. Maltreating and cursing the person with bad or sarcastic words is a symptom of no respect that can be concluded as lack of love.
Loss of faith and loyalty.
Having faith in your relationship and be loyal to your partner is a way of showing your love. However, if you can’t convince yourself to believe that your relationship will last and that you favor others than of your partner, it is an apparent sign that your love end. Infidelity is a true example of loss of faith and loyalty that leads to total loss of love.
Loss of acceptance.
Each person is not perfect. We have our own flaws and misbehavior. It is normal for us to commit mistakes and shortcomings. However, if you can’t find in your heart to accept the person due to his negative behavior and actions, it only means the end of your love.
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