Why people should wait on pregancy
posted June 29, 2009 - 12:47pmI have seen a lot of young people that have kids before they even finish High School. My neighbor had a baby before she finished High School. She has no job and her boyfriend works at a grocery store. I wonder how they will give their child a good life when they don’t even have a High School diploma. I’ve seen many more teenagers who are pregnant with babies and they never get a chance to go to college or do anything else in their life. They work all the time to try to support themselves and their babies. They are unhappy and they take it out on other people. They abuse their kids because they think that their kids are a burden instead of a joy.
I wish people would think about it before they have a whole bunch of kids and take it out on their kids. The kids are innocent but they will suffer a lot of emotional abuse because the parents can’t handle the responsibility and the bills. If they would have thought about how difficult it is to have a lot of children they would wait out on it. I think it’s the best thing to wait out on children. It’s best to have kids when you’re in your late twenties or thirties. You will be done with college and you will be financially stable. You won’t be stressed out of the bills. You will have more time for your children and you won’t have to abuse them. It’s just better leaving pregnancy for a later time. I don’t know why many young people don’t plan their life this way. I think they just go by the moment and some of them don’t even care about their future or the future of their baby.
A lot of teenage pregnancies are accidents. When you have an accident, you have a chance to correct it and you should correct it instead of giving birth when you are no where ready for the baby. If you have younger girls in your home, you should talk to them about unwanted pregnancy and how to correct it. You should also talk to them about waiting out on pregnancy. You should talk to them about finishing college and finding a job before they get settle down and get pregnant. Teenage pregnancy is a problem in our society. It reduces the quality of those people’s lives and their family too. It reduces the quality of their children’s lives. It creates more hostility and problems for them and their family. There will be more girls who can’t finish college. There will be more babies at risk for abuse. It’s so much better if people wait out on pregnancy. This is something that parents are responsible for talking to their children. Sometimes little girls don’t know unless you teach them about it. Children make poor decision and it’s the parent’s responsibility to keep their children aware of the problems of early pregnancy.
